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So. What Am I getting banned?

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[–] Madbrad200@sh.itjust.works 4 points 21 minutes ago

young padawan, the first lesson you ever learn on the internet is never admit your age until it no longer matters

[–] joyjoy@lemm.ee 16 points 3 hours ago (1 children)
[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 5 points 1 hour ago

Easy there, Karen.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 21 points 4 hours ago (3 children)

Why would you ever admit your age online?

[–] chatokun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 20 minutes ago (1 children)

Eh, I don't really see an issue with it at my age, but I guess for younger people it could be bad. I'm in my 40s now, but aside from producing some data to be mined, I don't see how people knowing that hurts me.

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 8 points 3 hours ago (4 children)

I'm not 23. Nobody likes you when you're 23.

[–] HailSeitan@lemmy.world 5 points 51 minutes ago

And you still act like you’re in freshman year

[–] JadenSmith@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

They only want you when you're 17, when you're 21 you're no fun.

[–] nodiratime@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago

23yr old women are quite popular.

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 10 points 4 hours ago (2 children)
[–] lemmydividebyzero@reddthat.com 8 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

If 16 is too young for Lemmy, 92 is unfortunately too old.

I'm sorry, but if you can't use it during the first 17 years of your life, you shouldn't be allowed to use it during the last 17 years either!!!!!!!11 Rules are rules...

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 5 points 4 hours ago

Oh, ok. I'll be sure to stop using when I'm 134 years old. Just to rule out the last 17 years.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 2 points 4 hours ago

Hi 92, nice to meet you. How old ya

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 25 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

Imagine this, but with email.

[–] lambalicious@lemmy.sdf.org 13 points 6 hours ago

This meme could have been an email!

[–] fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 57 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (8 children)

This particular thread is hosted on lemmy.world and you must be 18+ to access it.

Nah, admins only care about their own instance. So a LW admin would only care about underage LW users.

Admins don't have the time to moderate for other instances. I'm already busy enough with dbzer0, lemm.ee's business is theirs. (as long as they're not posting CSAM or scams)

edit: I should mention that you still have to follow the COCs of instances, but most of them can be boiled down to: Don't be a huge dick, and don't be racist/anything-phobic.

[–] LandedGentry@lemmy.zip 7 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

And despite how simple it is people still find new and interesting ways to be bigoted. It’s impressive really

[–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

As long as all those people getting banned were actually for those reasons...

Most of the time admins and mods just ban you because they don't like you even though that's not a rule.

[–] LandedGentry@lemmy.zip 3 points 4 hours ago

What makes you think it’s most of the time?

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[–] m_f@discuss.online 78 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Not really sure how that works with federation. You're not "using" lemmy.world, you're using lemm.ee, which has a copy of content from lemmy.world.

[–] lambalicious@lemmy.sdf.org 17 points 6 hours ago

I think you've pretty much nailed it. KFC can't ban you from buying a Burguer King that McDonalds is secondhand selling.

[–] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 27 points 8 hours ago

Why is Kit on instance X gatekeeping a user in instance Y from accessing a community on instance Z?

Gives me vibes of old man yelling at kids to stop having fun.

[–] Skunk@jlai.lu 48 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Bans are for adults, you gets sent to your room.

[–] jared@mander.xyz 13 points 8 hours ago

After you take out the trash.

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 49 points 10 hours ago (3 children)

No one under 18 years of age or under the regulated minimum age defined by your local law (whichever is higher), is allowed to use or access the website.

https://legal.lemmy.world/tos/#introduction

Curious choice

[–] skullgiver@popplesburger.hilciferous.nl 46 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Dealing with data protection laws surrounding children is a MASSIVE pain. Most Lemmy servers ignore the GDPR safely, but ignoring COPPA is a bit harder. And that doesn't even take into account the recent rise of laws blocking teenagers from social media, with varying ages and consent laws.

[–] Maalus@lemmy.world 21 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

"safely" as in are too small for the regulatory bodies to care. Takes one report though.

Basically. Although, it kind of depends on what a server gets reported on first. If it's just something like account deletion or data exports, that can be done manually, just not on scale.

[–] empireOfLove2@lemmy.dbzer0.com 26 points 9 hours ago

It's legal boilerplate.

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[–] End0fLine@midwest.social 32 points 10 hours ago (20 children)

I’m too old for this to matter, but is somebody really expected check the ToS of the server the community they’re posting in is on, or is this just a CYA kind of thing?

Federation makes this untenable.

Yeah just ignore and move on. They probably just put that there so they dont get sued for making porn available to minors without warning or something.

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