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So. What Am I getting banned?

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[–] joyjoy@lemm.ee 6 points 1 hour ago

I'm calling the police.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 8 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

Why would you ever admit your age online?

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 2 points 30 minutes ago (2 children)

I'm not 23. Nobody likes you when you're 23.

[–] nodiratime@lemmy.world 1 points 17 minutes ago

23yr old women are quite popular.

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 7 points 1 hour ago (2 children)
[–] lemmydividebyzero@reddthat.com 6 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

If 16 is too young for Lemmy, 92 is unfortunately too old.

I'm sorry, but if you can't use it during the first 17 years of your life, you shouldn't be allowed to use it during the last 17 years either!!!!!!!11 Rules are rules...

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 4 points 1 hour ago

Oh, ok. I'll be sure to stop using when I'm 134 years old. Just to rule out the last 17 years.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 1 points 1 hour ago

Hi 92, nice to meet you. How old ya

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 17 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

Imagine this, but with email.

[–] lambalicious@lemmy.sdf.org 9 points 3 hours ago

This meme could have been an email!

[–] fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 51 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (2 children)

This particular thread is hosted on lemmy.world and you must be 18+ to access it.

Nah, admins only care about their own instance. So a LW admin would only care about underage LW users.

Admins don't have the time to moderate for other instances. I'm already busy enough with dbzer0, lemm.ee's business is theirs. (as long as they're not posting CSAM or scams)

edit: I should mention that you still have to follow the COCs of instances, but most of them can be boiled down to: Don't be a huge dick, and don't be racist/anything-phobic.

[–] LandedGentry@lemmy.zip 6 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

And despite how simple it is people still find new and interesting ways to be bigoted. It’s impressive really

[–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

As long as all those people getting banned were actually for those reasons...

Most of the time admins and mods just ban you because they don't like you even though that's not a rule.

[–] LandedGentry@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 hours ago

What makes you think it’s most of the time?

[–] sag@lemm.ee 12 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

lemm.ee allow 16+ year old users.

[–] comfy@lemmy.ml 2 points 23 minutes ago* (last edited 22 minutes ago) (1 children)

I believe the most an admin can do is block you from their own instance (e.g. lemmy.world banning you from lemmy.world communities), they don't own your account on lemm.ee so they can't ban your account from accessing the comms they don't control, and lemm.ee has no reason to ban you.

Tagging @fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.com

[–] fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 18 minutes ago (1 children)

Yep, i have no power outside my instance. However sag has been banned by the LW admins :(

There's a YPTB post about it, you can chime in. It's outrageous honestly, sag is a very good poster/user, maybe they can be pressured into reversing the ban.

[–] comfy@lemmy.ml 2 points 11 minutes ago* (last edited 10 minutes ago)

Ah thanks.

YPTB

~~What's this?~~ ah just remembered, /c/ YePowerTrippinBastards

[–] fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

Should be fine, then. You're on .ee not .world, they're not going to vet your account for age ;)

edit: I should mention that you still have to follow the COCs of instances, but most of them can be boiled down to: Don't be a huge dick, and don't be racist/anything-phobic.

[–] sag@lemm.ee 10 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

Don't be a huge dick, and don't be racist/anything-phobic.

I leaved Reddit because of this. And I choose Lemmy over other Social Media app to ignore this. I can safely say I am not. I don't even joke about it like some edgy teenager thinking saying N-Word is fucking cool or saying Hitler was a good person and everyone should do it too. Or Hating LGBTQ person.

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 6 hours ago

You're a cool poster

[–] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 23 points 6 hours ago

Why is Kit on instance X gatekeeping a user in instance Y from accessing a community on instance Z?

Gives me vibes of old man yelling at kids to stop having fun.

[–] m_f@discuss.online 71 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Not really sure how that works with federation. You're not "using" lemmy.world, you're using lemm.ee, which has a copy of content from lemmy.world.

[–] lambalicious@lemmy.sdf.org 15 points 3 hours ago

I think you've pretty much nailed it. KFC can't ban you from buying a Burguer King that McDonalds is secondhand selling.

[–] Skunk@jlai.lu 44 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Bans are for adults, you gets sent to your room.

[–] jared@mander.xyz 12 points 6 hours ago

After you take out the trash.

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 45 points 7 hours ago (3 children)

No one under 18 years of age or under the regulated minimum age defined by your local law (whichever is higher), is allowed to use or access the website.

https://legal.lemmy.world/tos/#introduction

Curious choice

[–] skullgiver@popplesburger.hilciferous.nl 41 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Dealing with data protection laws surrounding children is a MASSIVE pain. Most Lemmy servers ignore the GDPR safely, but ignoring COPPA is a bit harder. And that doesn't even take into account the recent rise of laws blocking teenagers from social media, with varying ages and consent laws.

[–] Maalus@lemmy.world 18 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

"safely" as in are too small for the regulatory bodies to care. Takes one report though.

Basically. Although, it kind of depends on what a server gets reported on first. If it's just something like account deletion or data exports, that can be done manually, just not on scale.

[–] empireOfLove2@lemmy.dbzer0.com 24 points 7 hours ago

It's legal boilerplate.

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[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

That doesn't make sense. Iirc, lemmy.world doesn't host any of your content or manages your account, it simply just displays it.

[–] Nollij@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 hour ago

This can get a bit complicated with federation. This community is hosted on LW. I am accessing it via sopuli.xyz, and you via feddit.uk. All (presumably) have full bidirectional federation with each other.

When I hit send, this message will go to Sopuli's outbox, which will then sync to LW for this community. At that point, this post will live on LW's servers. Anyone accessing LW directly can see it, even if Sopuli were to go down. Later (probably less than a minute), LW will sync to Feddit.uk, at which point you will be able to see it.

Note that this is for text posts only. There have been some changes around images and video, both for bandwidth and liability reasons.

[–] End0fLine@midwest.social 29 points 7 hours ago (20 children)

I’m too old for this to matter, but is somebody really expected check the ToS of the server the community they’re posting in is on, or is this just a CYA kind of thing?

Federation makes this untenable.

Yeah just ignore and move on. They probably just put that there so they dont get sued for making porn available to minors without warning or something.

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[–] BackwardsUntoDawn@lemm.ee 8 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

is this like traveling to another country where the drinking age is lower

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 7 points 3 hours ago

No, it's like a 19 year old being on a conference call with Americans having a beer and Americans telling him he can't because in America the law is 21

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