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every time I see crap like this it make me think about that 30rock porn for women skit with Tina Fey

[–] essteeyou@lemmy.world 22 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Realistically how is a man going to design a good sex robot for a woman? Let a woman do that, they'll get what they want.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 10 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

Women already have the perfect sex bot. It's called a Sybian.

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 4 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

And if that Sybian could pick you up, and stroke your thighs, massage your breasts, have hips and legs to simulate the sexual positions that it can't provide you, while still being what it is, there is a huge room for improvement on the design of the sybian and what great things it does

[–] leftover@lemm.ee 2 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

Syban is probably designed by a man.

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Probably a group of engineers so maybe not all men, Sybian is just like the penultimate vibrator, would be a fun engineering challenge, but it's also a marketable challenge which would be why it exists

[–] bhamlin@lemmy.world 6 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

✅: Does what it's asked to do

✅: Doesn't talk back

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I'd kill to get my wife one, but that $1,300 tag gives me sticker shock.

[–] bhamlin@lemmy.world 1 points 48 minutes ago

But with that money you can give her the ride of her life...

[–] shaggyb@lemmy.world 11 points 4 hours ago

You're telling me women don't like vibrators.

[–] sundrei@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 4 hours ago

I'm no expert on attraction, but what if the sex robot looked like a skeleton?

[–] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 6 points 4 hours ago

Well i guess im a woman then lol

[–] Ceedoestrees@lemmy.world 28 points 6 hours ago

Speak for yourself. Gimme that drama free dick.

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 201 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (5 children)

I guess a vibrator isn't a type of sex robot?

Just saying that these sort of toys were way more normalized for women long before they were for men.

A man with a fleshlight was a gross weirdo, a woman with a vibrator is a strong independent woman taking control of her sexuality and not settling for the weakness of flesh in men.

[–] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 8 points 5 hours ago

This was my thought. Its the same way all our technology has grown. Honestly I think brain interfaces could eclipse robots like this before they are that great. As scary as that is.

[–] python@lemmy.world 33 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

Colloquially, the word "robot" always implies a certain amount of anthropomorphism. So no, I don't think a vibrator would count, as basically no vibrators on the market try to look human-like.

But that definitely is a weird difference between male and female sexuality - the sex toys women buy most are the very effective and utilitarian ones: Vibrator wands, Rabbits, Air pulse Vibrators etc.

While the most popular tools for men tend to focus on "realism"(?): Fleshlights, Sex Dolls, things like VR and POV porn. And I guess sex robots would fall into that category too in the future.

I can absolutely see the weirdness-factor of someone who is desperately trying to emulate a partner rather than just accept masturbation as a solo activity and optimize it from there 😬

[–] LaggyKar@programming.dev 42 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

A robot doesn't need to be anthropomorphic, an assembly line robot is still a robot. It does however need to be able to perform some actions autonomously, for which a vibrator hardly qualifies.

[–] Arkouda@lemmy.ca 7 points 5 hours ago

It does however need to be able to perform some actions autonomously, for which a vibrator hardly qualifies.

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[–] barsoap@lemm.ee 21 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Overpriced pornstar-branded fleshlights aren't the only masturbators in town and it's not like there's no life-like dildos either. The long and short of it is that the mechanics of a lubed hole are superior to that of a hand and you're not looking at the entry point all the time so noone actually cares what they look like.

Yes, the branded stuff does exist, humans, male female, doesn't matter, enter parasocial relationships news at 11. Can you imagine how well Justin Bieber dildos would sell.

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[–] towelie@lemm.ee 59 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (1 children)

Sex with a hella sexy robot? Nice.

Using a hella sexy robot to fill the emptiness of no intimacy or authentic mutual connection? Not nice.

For some reason sex with a robot doesn't feel gross to me — until they start using it to fill a hole (hehe)

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

What about for people who struggle to have emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy throughout their lives because of medical issues or mental health issues?

My ex has a brother who is now pushing 40 and has never even held a woman's hand. He has severe mental disabilities and will never live life on his own without some kind of caretaker. We know he looked at porn, partially because he refused to ever let people fix up his computer, usually out of fear of people seeing his porn.

Does he not deserve emotional and sexual intimacy? There is a high likelihood he will never have it otherwise.

until they start using it to fill a hole

What about, like in the situation I just described, when that hole will otherwise go a lifetime of being unfulfilled? Is that fair to them for being born a way they didn't choose?

[–] sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 0 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Different filler for different holes.

A sex bot is fine if you keep expectations in check. For the rest, friendship can go a long way. Help them find a hobby they can share with others (regardless of gender) and keep that platonic. That gives them social connection, and the sex bot gives physical release.

It's not as good as a complete relationship, but at least there's less risk of the sex bot creating more problems by trying to have it do human things.

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

That's exactly the wrong take.

Provide something that isn't what they need in order to fill a need they have.

That's like giving someone drugs instead to masque symptoms of working in the problem and addressing it.

But that's not right either. If providing sexual encounters was real and done appropriately then there this situation might still exists. If it's the physical space and intimacy that are triggering, then a robot is a very good choice if it provides some of the missing human experiences that missing out on when desired make for more broken people

What they need is emotional intimacy, but they can't get that because of crippling anxiety. You're not going to get emotional intimacy from a robot, and if you try, you run the very real risk of really adverse effects, like this or this.

That's why I suggested separating concerns. Keep the bot physical, and encourage real personal relationships in a low risk environment. There's always a chance a personal relationship develops into something more, whereas there's a lot of risk expecting a bot to fill that gap.

[–] kibiz0r@midwest.social 8 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

In these sexual relationships, availability and consent will always be taken for granted, something that’s never taken for granted in a sexual relationship with another human being.

People could get used to interacting in a way in which the other person isn’t taken into account as much, meaning that sexual partners could be instrumentalized for the purpose of having sex. That is to say the ‘human-humanoid’ interaction could be transferred to the relationship between two human beings.

Unfortunately, however, these advances aren’t being accompanied by deep reflections about the consequences that sex with robots can have.

[–] bane_killgrind@slrpnk.net 11 points 6 hours ago

never taken for granted

In healthy relationships anyway

[–] Dagwood222@lemm.ee 11 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

https://youtu.be/urS8GmwmeWQ

[off topic]

From the movie Cherry 2000. In the movie the hero has just lost his sex robot and is trying to date human women for the first time in a while.

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

It's a favorite campy classic of mine. I love bad movies.

I also think it's one of those films with a great idea but terrible execution that could be remade.

I want to see a remake where Cherry 2000 actually has agency and consciousness and at the end of the film the two women run away together leaving the creepy guy behind.

I always thought a remake could have Chris Elliott as the creepy guy and he would kill it in such a role.

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[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I'm surprised i haven't seen anyone talk about another movie, AI

One of the main characters is Gigolo Joe played by judge law

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

Probably because it wasn't super well received by audiences and kind of got forgotten by a lot of folks.

It only holds a 64% audience score on Rotten Tomatoes. It's definitely not hated but it's not a deeply well liked film.

I certainly had forgotten about Jude Law as Gigolo Joe.

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

It wasn't well received because of the changes Spielberg finishing it had on the project.

There's like 3 or 4 points where the movie should never ended but Spielberg doesn't do those types of movies

[–] Simulation6@sopuli.xyz 16 points 10 hours ago

Make robots look like bears or dolphins?

[–] flemtone@lemmy.world 11 points 9 hours ago

In this current age of western dating Sex Bots at least cut out all of the bullshit for many men and give you basic companionship with the perks of sex, which is a lot easier for some than dating.

[–] hemko@lemmy.dbzer0.com 76 points 13 hours ago (8 children)
[–] powermaker450@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 4 hours ago

and this is why uBlock origin is the be all end all of extensions.

[–] remotelove@lemmy.ca 41 points 13 hours ago

But FREE browsing! How revolutionary.

[–] KSPAtlas@sopuli.xyz 27 points 13 hours ago (12 children)

I've seen this more and more, it's fucked up and probably illegal

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[–] WhatAmLemmy@lemmy.world 48 points 13 hours ago (2 children)
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[–] remotelove@lemmy.ca 29 points 13 hours ago

All it took was one search to find plenty of contradictions to that post title.

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