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[–] Arkhive@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 hours ago

Maine I think loops back around to y’all territory…

[–] littlewonder@lemmy.world 4 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

I'm from "you guys" but I've lived in "y'all" and now I'm forever team "y'all," regardless of where I'm living.

It's the best export from the south, except maybe Texas brisket and pecan pie.

[–] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (2 children)

People where I am from call everyone "you guys" - men, women, trans, doesn't matter, everyone is just "you guys" even when it's a woman addressing a group of women.

The literal meaning isn't gender neutral, but in actual practice, it 100% is.

As for "y'all" or "you all", I don't see how it could possibly be interpreted as offensive to any gender.

[–] ipkpjersi@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

As for β€œy’all” or β€œyou all”, I don’t see how it could possibly be interpreted as offensive to any gender.

I think "we don't take kindly to y'all" to a trans person would likely be offensive. Beyond that though, you're probably okay.

[–] slacktoid@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 hour ago

I mean ... Thats just an all out threat with y'all acting as an exclusionary statement.

All in all agree with your point tho.

[–] tonyn@lemmy.ml 4 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

"You People" is the one to be avoided

[–] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 1 points 38 minutes ago

"howdy fuckers" is the opposite as it sounds bad on paper but in practice it goes over well (except with middle aged moms)

Yeah I don't see that one going over well anywhere

[–] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 1 points 3 hours ago

If you live on the line, or move north/west, it's now "you all".

I mean, neither "you" nor "all" is a gendered term in any way

[–] dumples@midwest.social 6 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

We need a better second person plural in English. Y'all works but its a big language gap

[–] crazybrain@lemmy.spacestation14.com 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I've heard people say "yous" before.

[–] dumples@midwest.social 1 points 3 hours ago

I know. I hate it. I don't know why

[–] jsomae@lemmy.ml 5 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

Y'all reminds me of the bible belt. I'm not transgender but I am queer and now and then it makes me uncomfortable.

[–] Alice@beehaw.org 1 points 1 hour ago

Queer people who live in the bible belt still say "y'all". It literally means "you all".

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 1 points 5 hours ago

Guess I'll have to ask the person I'm addressing in the future.

Thanks comrade.

[–] nadiaraven@lemmy.world 10 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Y'all is the opposite of offensive for trans people. I lived in the south for a while, and I now use y'all specifically to be inclusive. I wouldn't say "you guys" is offensive to trans women, but I would say for me and likely other trans women it briefly brings to mind being misgendered in the past, so I would call it a small kindness to ube as gender neutral as possible.

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 1 points 5 hours ago

Thanks comrade

[–] tkk13909@sopuli.xyz 6 points 7 hours ago

Trust me there are many more areas that say y'all

[–] semperverus@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago

Where does this put Scott the Woz?

[–] bdonvr@thelemmy.club 54 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (7 children)

"y'all" fills a legitimately useful gap the English language has. Other languages have a word like this.

Edit: also something cool I just found out, some languages have a way to disinguish "we" (you and I), and "we" (me and the rest of us, not you). It's called clusivity and is missing from European languages. Many indigenous languages of the Americas and Oceania have this, as well as Vietnamese and northern dialects of Mandarin.

[–] doubtingtammy@lemmy.ml 6 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Not a gap in every dialect! "Ye" is another plural second person used in Ireland

[–] Zoomboingding@lemmy.world 6 points 8 hours ago

Hear y'all hear y'all, Reggie King from o'er the holler brought pawpaw moonshine for the weddin'

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[–] Thcdenton@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

I call everyone brah πŸ€™

[–] AFC1886VCC@reddthat.com 7 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

People who don't even live in the USA saying "y'all" is pure pain

[–] rmuk@feddit.uk 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I say "all of y'all" and make a point to really emphasize the "'".

[–] weew@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 hour ago

You say "of?"

I thought it was basically all y'all

Or all'o'y'all

[–] ninjaturtle@lemmy.today 15 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

I'm not from the south and use "y'all" all the time. Find it very useful for filling in a gap that English has and slightly faster than saying "you all". Its gender neutral in my opinion.

Never once thought of it as offensive.

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[–] CandleTiger@programming.dev 4 points 7 hours ago

I bought a shirt once in Pittsburgh that says, β€œYinz is a gender-neutral p pronoun”

[–] Chainweasel@lemmy.world 31 points 11 hours ago (9 children)

Yinz goin aht n abaht in dahntahn Picksburgh to watch da Stillers game?

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[–] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 39 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Yall is the genderless southern hospitality greeting.

No bullshit no hate. Only yall

[–] stardom8048@lemmy.world 41 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I've used y'all intentionally as a gender neutral term for years in the south.

Lately I've even seen "y'all means all" used as a pride slogan in the south.

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 4 points 5 hours ago

Awesome! Thanks comrade.

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