Why do I feel like you didn't just say "fuck"?
this post was submitted on 28 Oct 2024
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There's something seriously off about this story, and I can't help but think you've left out some significant details.
But to answer your question, nothing. You do nothing.
You go to work, avoid people that aren't required for you to do your job, and try not to say things that will get you in trouble.
I personally have no problem with fuck or any other words, but there's a time and a place. If you dropped an F bomb in front of my customer/client/patient, I'd give you a stern warning not to let it happen again.
When the actions of multiple people on the other side of a story don’t make sense, we’re not getting the whole story.
I’m guessing you cursed out a coworker and not for the first time. Most workplaces will excuse passing profanity more than they will excuse verbal abuse of a coworker.
I’m guessing you cursed out a coworker and not for the first time.
Not what happened.
there's a difference between cursing the poor work done by a coworker and cursing a person that was there and wasn't responsible for the dressing.
I don't understand why you choose not to see the difference.
Cause you sound like an unreliable narrator.
This sounds like a plausible thing that actually happened.
i wonder if this is the same person you were worried was more popular than you at work a few months ago.
after reading some of your post history, you seem like a bitter person who will never be happy. that tells me there is so much more going on here than what you have let us believe is going on.
Is there a reason you have characterized this incident as a gender issue?
Was the poor work the work of the nurse who heard you and chewed you out? Do you often criticize the work of your coworkers in a nonproductive manner, expletives or no?
Did you say anything else before saying "fuck" to your coworker, or before she chewed you out? Do you think you were on good terms with her before this incident?
Are you listening to the specifics of your coworkers' complaints? What are they asking you to do differently?
He said "I want to" and added "you" afterwards, that would explain the trouble he is in.
Seems OP is getting roasted here... What's the full story? Tell us what really happened that day and we might come to a conclusion whether "fuck" warrants a mob chasing you.
Confront? No.
Serve margaritas to? Yes.