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I haven't had Facebook in years, but I'll admit the marketplace is pretty damn good for finding secondhand deals. Luckily (unluckily) my wife doesn't give two shits about being spied on so I browse it from her phone
Marketplace was fantastic for buying and selling all sorts of stuff for years, but it is now plagued with fake listings and scams and all kinds of undesirable shit now. The scammers seem to have no problem whatsoever cranking out new accounts on the regular, and Facebook doesn’t seem to give a shit. Any time I report any of the scam listings I get a response from FB about 3 weeks later saying they did nothing wrong, so they took no action. Fuck Facebook.
It must be location dependent, but our local marketplace is a goldmine (it also might just be an FB group, not sure where all that's at these days). Every now and again you get some dufus trying to pull some shady shit, but this is a small town where most everyone knows each other, and people are pretty quick to call it out.
and what else do I use? Craigslist dead as he'll, autotrader and the like have comparitively nice cars
If you're looking for cheap cars, check if your state/city/area has a govenment auction site. In minnesota we have MNBid and you can usually pick up impounded vehicles or old govenment fleet vehicles for dirt cheap.
Have you tried going to some of those lower end local used car lots? Before cl and fb we used to look through the newspaper and go to used car lots. I know you'll pay a little more than from a private seller unless you haggle, but at least there's a selection. No Facebook required.
I recommend autotempest as it searches multiple sites.
it searches what autotrader, eBay, Craigslist, and cars.com
all those are either empty or have relatively nice car
I want that 3k dollar civic with a mild oil leak
The problem is what you're looking for is far less common than it used to be.
The bottom has dropped out of the market. Cars under a certain value are usually scrapped and/or parted out. You will find them occasionally but it's getting rare. In my local area I find that Craigslist has the best selection of beaters, but it's still difficult to find anything worthwhile under $4000.
Might be time to consider a motorcycle, scooter, or e-bike of you can make it work
Edit: one more thing. There are ways to browse FB marketplace without an account.
- absolutely want to get a motorcycle soon (I like anything that burns dino juice basically)
and how? no account?
Not sure what country your ein, but if it's one with a non-graduated license program (basic test lets you ride any size bike) please do at least a 2-3 day basic course. In America, they allow you to skip the permit stage but give a proper explanation of controls. It's so worth it. Please don't learn from your uncle first.
Price is dependent on area. I'm close enough to a major coastal US city to commute (not California) and I can find those $3k civics. They're just 2005ish not 1995ish now. I bought a not-dead-yet 99 ranger for $2k this year which WA impossible in 2021 for "work" trucks. $3k is a healthy goal, imo. The bottom of the market has come down in the last year.
As for browsing fb marketplace, I can't get any to work. I try browse at work and it often doesn't work. I refuse to sign in there. The tips and hacks are outdated, as far as I can tell. If you have recommendations, I'm all for it.
As for a motorcycle, maybe I'm just fortunate to afford a cheap 00s one for fun, but the weather really literally rains on my parade. Commuting on one means your locked for ~9 hours into that vehicle as your ride home. Weather can change. We get 30%+ afternoon summer thunderstorms here all summer and it sucks. Yeah, there's rain gear that works well, but even if you ignore the higher crash risk in rain, you have to bring the gear with you (cargo bag) or wear it (sweat like hell) so that's a compromise. If the climate is drier, the winters warmer, the summers not so humid, and in a more bike-friendly region, that all of course improves viability. I couldn't beleive the number of bikes I saw in Mexico. Obviously, people make it work, but it's tough. Different countries have different views on hear, too - that's a big expense potentially
video selfie
Wtf
I've had two cases where phishers have tried to create an account to impersonate my aunt. My guess this is an attempt to curtail these phishing schemes.
A photo of my balls would help in that case too but it doesn't men I want to give it to them.
lowkey rather my balls than my face
You send photos of your balls enough that your balls can be used as a way to identify you?
There are options for additional checks they could explore that are less creepy.
- Make someone pay a one time charge. This might not give you the full details but the transaction gives more data, and shows someone is willing to back up their request for access with a paper trail which has fraud protection laws.
- Third party verification services. Like your bank, who already have details about you. There just needs to be a way for them to vouch for you. Credit reporting agencies probably already do this, but I kinda think this is almost creepier than giving Facebook a video.
- Verifying the email attached to your account is a good first step.
In the meantime I think knowing the password should at least get you logged in enough for account maintenance. You should be able to set the entire account private and take it offline with limited toggles. Restoring full access would require the additional verification.
- You've now put up a paywall on Facebook for new users. Worse, a lot of new users are likely not going to have a banking account in their name, so there is nothing to verify except maybe a location of bank.
- Banks do not verify identity for people online. The few companies that do verification are major tech companies, but then Meta may not want to force users to build up an account elsewhere before making an account on their website.
- All email verification does is verify that a person has an email address. It does not verify that the email address is for a person.
Instagram wanted that to re-activate my account after they froze it due to "inactivity" because I hadn't logged into it in a couple of months.
I noped out and abandoned it (because I couldn't even delete it without first going through the privacy invision to reactivate it and login...)
That reminds me: I need to delete my Facebook account.
Don't forget to change all your personal details and pictures first.
They may never delete anything, but as long as they think you take them seriously, they have to accept change.
Don't! It's fucking worthless.
Run, run far away and forget you ever heard of fb!!
The more this invasive behavior becomes the norm, the worse off ALL of us will be.
This is the truth right here
they still need a video selfie from me
Holy shit the normie web really has gotten that bad?
Enjoy your cattle pen!
make a list of everyone that you would want to keep in touch with on facebook. then keep in touch with them directly.
zero. I need marketplace for the cheap shitboxes
Video selfie... Lol :) People who agree to this must be desperate to use Facebook.
Holy shit are you serious? You require a selfie now? So glad I blew that shit away when it was still possible aeons ago....
It sounds like you know but you don’t want to do it.
Make a video selfie but wear a mask or use a filter to obscure your true face. Maybe use AI, but be sure to strip the metadata.
Go down to the FB headquarters and give them your pinky finger.
This actually made me LOL
Just give up. It is not worth it, anyway.
I need to buy a car tho
Guess what? I have bought half a dozen cars over the years, and I don't have a Facebook account. Somehow, being a normal human and doing normal human things is still possible without X, Facebook, Reddit, Tictoc, and Instagram. Or whatever this years social fad is.
What are shitboxes?
Inexpensive cars
don't. use local classifieds like kijiji
Haha that reminds me: I tried to create a blizzard account to play wow classic and they wanted me to complete a 20 step captcha that would have taken 15 minutes or so to complete. Utter madness