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[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 123 points 5 months ago (3 children)

Still means "bested" to me. I'm not hip to sexual slang.

[–] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 61 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Clearly you are if you know what type of slang "topped" is lol

[–] veroxii@aussie.zone 108 points 5 months ago (2 children)

At my age I just assume anything I don't know is sexual.

[–] jballs@sh.itjust.works 67 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Don't you come "bussin' no cap" at me young man, I'm happily married.

[–] veroxii@aussie.zone 31 points 5 months ago (1 children)
[–] jballs@sh.itjust.works 28 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Are you... are you hitting on me?

[–] Syltti@lemmy.world 12 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Reading all this, I gotta ask; Did it work?

[–] jballs@sh.itjust.works 25 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Yes, veroxii and I are married now.

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[–] mindbleach@sh.itjust.works 10 points 5 months ago

Neil : "Ah, here's one. This means that someone has just done something which has never been done before. 'Richard Moore of Sugarland, Texas, hollowed out an eggplant and filled it with hot sauce and nickels.' And amazingly, it's not a weird sex thing. 99% of all new human behaviors are weird sex things. But not in this-- oh, no, it is a weird sex thing, yeah."

[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 27 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

It's clearly sexual from the context of the meme. Pretty much any time this happens, it's sexual in nature. Otherwise it would just be confusing rather than presented as humorous.

[–] Leate_Wonceslace@lemmy.dbzer0.com 37 points 5 months ago (1 children)

"Topping" means taking an active role in sex, whereas "bottoming" is a passive role.

[–] Enkrod@feddit.de 19 points 5 months ago

Nyeah... partly.

If that were entirely true, a "power bottom" would make no sense.

The terms sexual usage originated in gay circles where it only delineates who penetrates and who gets penetrated. Traditional views on sex ascribe a submissive or passive role to the bottom and an active or dominating role to the top, but you can totally have a power bottom who takes control and an active role in the intercourse but is the one getting penetrated.

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[–] meleethecat@lemmy.world 90 points 5 months ago (1 children)

At least she didn’t pull a boner.

[–] thesporkeffect@lemmy.world 38 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I'll show them how many boners Betty can make!!

[–] FenrirIII@lemmy.world 8 points 5 months ago

She can pull three boners simultaneously

[–] AceQuorthon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 65 points 5 months ago (2 children)

My favorite is the Nixon campaign buttons that says "They Can't Lick Our Dick"

[–] the_joeba@lemmy.world 85 points 5 months ago

That's not a language change, they knew.

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[–] merc@sh.itjust.works 62 points 5 months ago (4 children)
[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 5 months ago (1 children)
[–] NewAgeOldPerson@lemmy.world 12 points 5 months ago

You shall rue this day apparently.

[–] Johanno@feddit.de 16 points 5 months ago (1 children)

What's the actual meaning of boner?

[–] gwen@lemmy.dbzer0.com 28 points 5 months ago
[–] x4740N@lemm.ee 8 points 5 months ago

I'm assuming boner here means mistake but actual boners can be mistakes sometimes and lead to unintended consequences

[–] OmnislashIsACloudApp@lemmy.world 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I half remember being told this originally came from bonehead. so like a bonehead would make a mistake like that. which then got shortened to boner.

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[–] Maven@lemmy.zip 56 points 5 months ago
[–] Leate_Wonceslace@lemmy.dbzer0.com 54 points 5 months ago

Good for her.

[–] Silentiea@lemmy.blahaj.zone 43 points 5 months ago

I dunno, the looks on the bystanders faces implies it's got the same impact as it might today.

[–] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 32 points 5 months ago

Get topped idiot

[–] butter@midwest.social 30 points 5 months ago (2 children)

What is this supposed to have meant?

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 115 points 5 months ago (2 children)

She got one upped, outdone, lost to her rival, and now needs to take it in ass again from her.

[–] klemptor@startrek.website 51 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Mmmhmm, yup, yeah, wait...wut??

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 7 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (5 children)

I've seen the source, it's all true. That's why they eventually formed a poly triangle with Archie, and, occasionally, The Predator.

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[–] Tylerdurdon@lemmy.world 12 points 5 months ago (1 children)

But as an old fucker, I don't know the current meaning.

[–] fushuan@lemm.ee 16 points 5 months ago (2 children)

the same one, but it's used in a sexual context. Being the top is being the dominant one on a relationship, sexually speaking.

[–] Tylerdurdon@lemmy.world 6 points 5 months ago

Oohhhhhhhh. Thanks

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[–] PugJesus@lemmy.world 29 points 5 months ago

Something like "one-upped", I believe.

[–] TeoTwawki@lemmy.world 28 points 5 months ago
[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 25 points 5 months ago

Bottom energy.

[–] germanatlas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 5 months ago

I wish that was me

[–] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 5 months ago

!yurimemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone

[–] mindbleach@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 months ago (5 children)

If you want some cultural whiplash, read the first Archie comic. You'll know why when you get there.

I read it, no clue what you were referring to

[–] Daxtron2@startrek.website 6 points 5 months ago

I read it just and there was definitely some very 1940s lingo but was there one in specific that you were referring to?

[–] TheRealLinga@sh.itjust.works 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)
[–] mindbleach@sh.itjust.works 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)
[–] PraiseTheSoup@lemm.ee 26 points 5 months ago (4 children)

lol I'm not reading 60 pages of ancient manga for a single joke

[–] x4740N@lemm.ee 4 points 5 months ago

*comic

It's not from Japan

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[–] mctoasterson@reddthat.com 9 points 5 months ago

This apparently changed around the same time people stopped using "Give 'em the high hard one".

[–] don@lemm.ee 5 points 5 months ago

As another example, the man isn’t queer at all.

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