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Indeed. I should have said "borrow something important". It needs to be something they care about, or something they know you care a lot about. How you say thanks are examples.
Why would a person who doesn’t like you want to lend you something that they care about?
It is the Benjamin Franklin effort. Google it for a better explanation than my own.