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Anon is stuck in a rut (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 5 months ago by Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works

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[–] todd_bonzalez@lemm.ee 3 points 5 months ago (2 children)

It surely gets better if you can make the necessary changes to your life to improve this.

I never hear anyone talk like this who doesn't live in the suburbs with a huge commute. I live in a city and can get to work in 15 minutes without a car.

My schedule is:

6:00am: Wake up, shower, eat breakfast, get dressed.
6:45am: Leave for work.
7:00am: Arrive at work.
12:00pm: Lunch hour.
4:00pm: Leave work.
4:15pm: Arrive home and unwind.
5:00pm: Workout.
5:30pm: Prepare Dinner.
6:15pm: Eat Dinner.
6:45: Clean up kitchen and other parts of home.
7:00pm: Movies, Video Games, Social Time, Sex Time.
10:00pm: Go to bed

That gives me a full 6 hours between finishing work and going to bed. If I choose an easy dinner, I hardly have to do anything less than fun after work, and I work in a cool part of town so I don't actually have to go commute anywhere. I can be drinking at a bar within 5 minutes of clocking out, and I don't have to drive home. Any other errands I make in a week are within walking distance of my home or work.

Before I moved, my schedule was:

5:45am: Wake up, shower, eat breakfast, get dressed.
6:30am: Leave for work.
8:00am: Arrive at work.
12:00pm: Lunch hour.
5:00pm: Leave work.
6:30pm: Arrive home and unwind.
7:00pm: Prepare Dinner.
7:45pm: Eat Dinner.
8:15pm: Clean up kitchen and other parts of home.
8:30pm: Movies, Video Games, Social Time, Sex Time.
9:45pm: Go to bed

So that gave me an entire 3.25 hours after getting home, giving me no time to fit a workout in without giving up other leisure activities. This doesn't even factor in that everywhere else I needed to run errands was a 15-30 minute drive away.

[–] SwampYankee@mander.xyz 3 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I've had some pretty long commutes in the past because my work location changes every few years. I enjoy the work, though, so that helps, but I've still been feeling the OP lately. I'm in my late 30s and I don't have kids and "fun" doesn't really do it for me anymore. More and more I need to feel like I'm doing something worthwhile instead of aimless hedonism. I'll figure it out, though, it's just time to make some, as you say, necessary changes again.

[–] todd_bonzalez@lemm.ee 2 points 5 months ago

Making sure you have time is important. My schedule breakdown isn't really the blueprint of my life. I belong to social groups, and I volunteer. I have hobbies and projects that I work on.

If you don't have enough unstructured time, you'll never have the opportunity to build structure around it.

[–] Justas@sh.itjust.works 3 points 5 months ago

The largest predictor of divorce is a commute longer than 45 minutes.