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[–] CoffeeJunkie@lemmy.world 36 points 6 months ago (3 children)

Graveyards are a waste of space & good land. Land is for the living. Cremation is the way; it is clean, responsible, & considerate.

[–] Grass@sh.itjust.works 20 points 6 months ago (3 children)

. I'd rather be harvested for any useful organs if I have any left healthy enough to save someone, then the rest of me thrown in some kind of corpse compost or bio reactor or something.

[–] the_third@feddit.de 14 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Yes, but the whole thing isn't about you but about the people you leave behind. It helps me a lot that I can visit the place where I buried my father's ashes and tell him about what is going on and how live is currently. I miss him a lot.

[–] dependencyinjection@discuss.tchncs.de 11 points 6 months ago (1 children)

For every person like you there may be a person like me that couldn’t care less to visit a grave. I can remember my fallen ones from anywhere.

Don’t want to sound callous but if you’re dead you’re dead to me too, like it’s a part of life. Just accept it and move on. I’m gonna die one day whoop whoop.

[–] Carnelian@lemmy.world 8 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Maybe as a compromise, then, the people who care can do the thing and the people who don’t don’t have to?

[–] dependencyinjection@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 6 months ago (4 children)

Sure, but if the argument is that graveyards take to much valuable space that could be used to house living humans.

Perhaps people should keep ashes in their own gardens etc and you can alsways go and do the things you do.

To be transparent, this isn’t something I have given a lot of thought to until I saw this thread.

[–] Exusia@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Something I think I've seen in movies (mostly ones implied to be ancient japan) is a family grave. A single pillar driven into the ground with the family name and then everyone is cremated or something. Notable individuals for the family get a pillar next to it, but this could be a solution as first world countries reach the point where space is a premium. This allows families to mourn recently, and not-so-recently deceased.

Cyberpunk has the Columbariums - huge columns of thousands of cremated individuals, with a digital display for your Epitaph and name

[–] dependencyinjection@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

That sounds like a possible solution and pretty cool too tbh.

[–] Carnelian@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Suppose so, I feel like they’re pretty low on the list of land we could reclaim tho. Would rather go after golf courses first for example

Oh I agree that golf courses would be a priority. The same for office blocks where people can work from home.

I’m with mark twain on golf, it’s a good walk spoiled 😂

[–] NewAgeOldPerson@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

There are composting options now I think.

[–] BastingChemina@slrpnk.net 1 points 6 months ago

Yes, it's also called Natural Organic Reduction or terramation. This would be my dream.

When I die compost my body and use the compost on a tree in the garden or spread it in a natural reserve. This way if my relative want to visit my grave they go in nature rather than going in a gray cemetery full of concrete.

[–] VulKendov@reddthat.com 1 points 6 months ago

If you don't have any useful organs, I imagine you can still be used as a cadaver for medical students.

[–] cosmicrookie@lemmy.world 10 points 6 months ago

I'd like my ashes to go into a firework and be spread out all over my local area. Go out with a bang!

[–] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Clean? I would have said burial was more environmentally friendly.

[–] maccentric@sh.itjust.works 6 points 6 months ago (1 children)

If they didn’t pump the bodies full of toxic chemicals and store them indefinitely in a piece of furniture, maybe.

[–] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Good points.

I will specify organs donated and Eco friendly coffin without embalming.

[–] maccentric@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 months ago

I’m leaning towards one of those fungus suits, hopefully with a mango tree planted atop.