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Bus stops on the main road(s), placed so everyone has a stop within a 15-20 minute walk.
Sort of agree with others suggesting getting rid of the neighborhoods in the first place, but sharing walls is hell. When the only way to speak confidentially in your own home is to whisper, it's impossible to wfh or have a telehealth appointment (or, worse, a teletherapy appointment).
15-20 min is too far, if it is going to have any impact, the distance to the closest bus stop can't be any further from houses than 10 min.
That sounds more like a old/cheap construction problem than a shared walls problem. I live in an apartment with solid concrete walls built in the 80s and I never hear my neighbours unless they are full-on screaming, which I've only heard happen once.
The sound is bad enough but with properly constructed walls, it's not a problem.
I have other problems with shared walls. Your neighbors have cockroaches? Now you do too! Bedbugs? Yep those can come on in too. If you live in an apartment, then you bet the landlord will cheap out and not do as effective treatments. You think being clean and not keeping things in cardboard will stop them? Maybe temporarily but they're just waiting to come back out from the walls where they weren't treated. Joy!
The other thing is that if your neighbor smokes cigarettes inside, then you get some bonus secondhand smoke. If you have bad reactions even with allergy medications and HEPA filters, well I guess it's time for you to move or suffer. (You didn't want to use your PTO on anything not sick days right?)
Did your neighbors have a plumbing problem that they neglected? Congratulations on your new mold in your shared walls. (You wanted to call code enforcement on your landlord about this? Good luck, they won't enforce it.)
I'm sure there are real solutions to my above problems but my reality is that the only solution is to move when it's too much to bear. (Haven't lived in one place for more than 2 years because of it...)
Even worse. I lived in an apartment that suffered water and smoke damage because my upstairs neighbor fell asleep with a cigarette in his hand. It could have been worse than just a fire really. We could have all lost everything or someone could have died.
Don't build your houses out of cardboard then
I’m confused. When I lived in apartments, I never built them myself. Can you explain how one builds one’s apartment?
It's the housing market in general, it's too often cheap crap