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[–] BirdyBoogleBop@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 10 months ago (1 children)

If I took all the advice people said not to sleep with I would have exactly 0 people to choose from.

[–] mulcahey@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Really? Coworkers, crazy people, assholes. There's a lot of people who don't fall into those groups, I hope

[–] BirdyBoogleBop@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

You'd think but if you take out anyone at a pub/club, your friends, coworkers, people you see on the street you basically have nobody. Only thing they said is okay are dating app and they suck so bad.

Yes I have gotten advice to never take anyone home from the club. Apparently the people I know want to die alone.

[–] Lumelore@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 10 months ago

Yeah dating apps are pretty bad. Try joining a group/club or participate in an event of something that you like such as art, sports, etc. Socialize with the people there and eventually you may get in a relationship with someone. I have many relatives who met each other this way so it seems it works. Also one plus of this method is that you know you both have a shared interest.