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I'll go first. Mine is that I can't stand the Deadpool movies. They are self aware and self referential to an obnoxious degree. It's like being continually reminded that I am in a movie. I swear the success of that movie has directly lead to every blockbuster having to have a joke every 30 seconds

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[–] mostNONheinous@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago (3 children)

I won’t watch SNATCH because people wouldn’t shut the fuck about it for like 10 years. It may be great, I wouldn’t know because I won’t watch it.

[–] Couldbealeotard@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago (3 children)

I do this same thing. It's there a name for it? Peer defiance?

[–] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

I think it's just called you guys being contrarian

[–] mostNONheinous@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

You could say this if I behaved that way with every recommendation, but it is how something is recommended that is the issue here. Context is key.

[–] Bluebanrigh@aussie.zone 2 points 11 months ago

Me too, when people recommend me tv shows.

On paper they're series that I would like, but the recommendations years old and I still haven't watched them.

[–] mostNONheinous@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Demand avoidance is a thing, I specifically hate it when people are all “BRO, how have you not seen this, it’s the shit. YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOURE MISSING!” So I just stay away as a fuck you I guess.

[–] Couldbealeotard@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

I find the people who do the whole "how have you not seen [...]" Have not matured enough too have the awareness that other people have different life experiences. Lack of empathy.

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

Most of his other films are better, check them out and then watch Snatch if you still haven't.

[–] thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Things are popular for reasons and being cynical about it and prejudging something based only on its popularity is limiting your exposure to the world.

Its better to have an informed opinion then a cynical ignorance.

[–] mostNONheinous@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago

The notion that missing a single guy Ritchie flick is limiting my exposure to the world is laughable. I’m gonna add another 10 years on now.