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"It is often said 'not all men'. But they are always men."
"Think about the comments that you post"
Think about the comments you post.
Eh. The older I get, the more I realize that sex is not a good indicator of character.
Sexists will disagree, though.
In incidents like this, with rude comments about looks, it's always men doing it tho.
And it's always men downvoting us women who point it out.
Y'all are fragile little beasties.
I mean, you're delusional if you think women never make comments like this.
Also probably sexist.
Definitely sexist.
Riiiiggghhhttt.
Have at it I guess.
Do you think it would be appropriate to say "it's always women who do x" and then call any women who disagree "fragile little beasties"?
Nice dehumanizing language. You might not be the hero you think you are, just FYI
Thanks for thinking I'm trying to be a heroine. You're wrong ofc, but good try.
The world is going to devour you lmao. Good luck with high school!
I'm in my 60's.
Maybe you should stop guessing you know me cause you're not very good at it.
Maybe you never matured. Maybe you're regressing. Who knows.
It's high-school level dynamics, regardless
Then fucking act like it, child
Luckily people won't need to deal with your sexist views for much longer
That's exactly why there's entire store shelves dedicated to selling magazines preying on insecurities about how men look, shows like househusbands of Atlanta, the Kardashian brothers, and why ~~women~~ men are known for talking trash about each other's appearance in the workplace
Ugh, the blind hypocrisy here has reached The Office level... Sweeping generalizations and prejudgements based on sex, by someone claiming to condemn sexism.
Our society has made leaps and bounds in women's rights and equality, but there's still so much room to grow and improve. I am a man, and I believe there is still an unfair advantage to being both white and male sex. I believe this is due to inherent explicit and implicit sexism and racism that still permeates our society.
But you are making sweeping generalizations that you claim as a fact. Cite yourself then. Find some reputable research that supports your sexist claims.
There's a difference between making statements as I have done above vs asserting sweeping generalizations as fact, as you have done.
The historic sexism against women doesn't mean that in any given situation, men are default at fault, or the greatest offender by number. It's especially absurd here, where you are making it out like women do not have conflict with one another.
Were you homeschooled all your life? Do you live in a bubble? This is a blatantly false and truly absurd statement that everyone can laughingly dismiss, based on countless counter-examples throughout their personal lives.
The most cunningly ruthless insults I've ever heard in my life have all been from women, who I considered to have more emotional intelligence than the average man.
I don't know.. maybe you're just trolling and I bit....
Haaaaaaave you ever watched TV? Just turn on Bravo at almost any point in the day and watch the reality TV women saying mean shit about other women all damn day. And those shows are primarily watched by women.
I agree there's a huge problem and it disproportionately affects women and it is disproportionately men causing it. And that's worth talking about and fighting against. I'm ready to take responsibility and fight this where I can, despite not being affected myself. But blaming all men is useless. What should we do, put all men in prison? No, we need to make sure women are protected and men are properly educated, and that men who do digusting shit are properly punished. We need to raise awareness about toxic masculinity. When people blame me and badmouth me for shit that other people did wrong that's sexism.
citation needed
You don't even notice how toxic you are. Delicious.
Right. That's why I once had to write up several women for writing really horrible things about the weight and appearance of a fellow woman co-worker on the ladies room white board.
Women NEVER insult other women.
There's a white board inside the bathroom? Why?
Hell if I know. We had one in the men's room too but the most it was ever used for was the occasional doodle. No one wanted to spend any more time in the restroom than absolutely necessary.
No, their singular experience invalidates your sweeping generalization. Women body shame all the time. It’s possible to have a discussion about body shaming, toxic masculinity, rape culture, etc without leaning on a cliche statement that ignores that women, as flawed humans with agency, also do bad things.
Not singular, but if I pointed out all the times I personally witnessed women being terrible to other women (or even being terrible to men) you'd probably label me as an incel woman hater.
But apparently, since YOU'VE never experienced it, it doesn't happen, right? Your anecdotal experience is somehow more valid than my anecdotal experience by virtue of gender?
I have two daughters and I am teaching them to call out any bullshit they might face, regardless of the sex of the offender.
Fuuuuckin hell lass, have you ever been to France? Wonder why a huge chunk of the women are slim?
Because the women are utter, utter cunts to eachother regarding bodyweight. It's toxic as fuck but it's not the men
"It is often said 'not all humans'. But they are always human."
STOP REPORTING THIS COMMENT! It doesn't break any rules.
It is a quote from the sister of Giulia Cecchettin, an Italian woman who was murdered by her ex 3 weeks ago.
How does this not fall under sexism? This comment and the rest of the follow ups below look to be clear cut violations of rule 1
Sexist comment. Way to ruin your post OP.
Wow, you got dog piled on for pointing out this simple truth.
Thanks for fighting the fight. I'm a couple decades younger than you starting to fight the fight for the next generation of women as well.
I don't need you to give me advice on how to be successful. If I am looking for it, I'll ask, thank you.
The rest of your reply doesn't even merit a reply.
You can tell these people really hate it when they don't get the last word in.
It blows my mind how much the boomers and this current teen/early adult generation seem to have in common... A real step back in technological literacy, critical thinking skills, and ability to scrutinize reputable sources.
Also like many of the boomers is their inability to handle dissenting information/evidence counter to their internalized beliefs. They just shutdown and reorient themselves with comforting information/reassurance seak from their in-group (e.g., FB, reddit echo-chamer).
This is my subjective perspective of course, and I want to point out I'm not asserting it as fact like a jackass.
It's not the truth, though.
Yes, maybe it is true that the majority of body shaming comments come from me. I don't know. But it is 100% not true that "it's always men." Hell, that's so easily disprovable that anyone who believes it is being willfully ignorant.
I seriously doubt the majority of comments come from men. That it's what they fixate on, is a different matter.