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[–] postmateDumbass@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Is true.

But who/what defines where the boundry is between acceptable and not acceptable?

[–] dangblingus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

We all do, constantly, on a case by case basis. We know that if someone makes a sexist off color joke, they're probably just joking, and we can choose how much we want to validate or invalidate their tasteless joke. If someone is actively calling for the extermination of a specific group of people, we can decide on a case by case basis how severe our response should be to them.

[–] postmateDumbass@lemmy.world -4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

We thought the same before cancel cultire came.

[–] whereisk@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There's nothing new here.

People always 'cancelled' societally unacceptable behaviour.

Sex before marriage. Baby outside wedlock. Wearing the wrong clothes. Loving the wrong people. Believing the wrong things. Discovering the wrong things. Asking the wrong questions. Drawing the wrong things. Consuming the wrong things. Giving shelter to the wrong people.

People have been 'cancelled' since society existed.

[–] postmateDumbass@lemmy.world -1 points 1 year ago

Exactly, this meme is nothing new.

Its all mob justice all the way down.

[–] Speculater@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Do you actively encourage harm to others minding their own fucking business.

[–] postmateDumbass@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

So thats your definition. Ok.

Define harm.

Physical? Mental? Financial? Environmental?

[–] RobertOwnageJunior@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] ArcticPrincess@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Okay, how do you assess that harm has occurred?

I claim that your post just harmed me. You should be excluded from the social contact.

You violated the rules my god laid down. Harmful to me and all my fellow believers. You're out.

Your flagrant homosexuality is harming my children. Excluded.

Your campaign to take away my guns is harming me and all my descendants. I was just minding my own business until you came along with your intolerant gun removal policies. Excluded! Burn him.

This only solves the dilemma in a trivial way, if harm is transparent and uncontentious. It doesn't address the real dilemma, which is widespread disagreement about what should and shouldn't be tolerated.

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Diffuse sanctions carried out by the community. And if the community all falls in agreement with such lunacy, you have much bigger problems than how you handle tolerance.

[–] Scribbd@feddit.nl 3 points 1 year ago

To exapand on the original who: all of us. We are all executors of the social contract.

[–] Sunfoil@lemmy.world -2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You all are right now. I bet a lot of Nazis are minding their own business, just being a racist in a corner somewhere. Maybe hiding from the leftists who think they have the balls to punch somebody.

[–] Katana314@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Racism isn't an intrinsic, non-visible behavior. Racists act externally to other members of society. They don't sit in their own corner.

[–] Sunfoil@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

So as long as I keep my Nazi flags in my apartment, I'm A-OK?

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Every time I see this question, I have to wonder if it's genuine. Are you genuinely at a loss to come up with a standard for what's acceptable? Is this really difficult for you to imagine? Or are you just pretending to struggle, for rhetorical effect, because you secretly long to be intolerant and are trying to find a way to pooh-pooh requests for tolerance? Idk. You could just be stupid, and "intolerance means not allowing other ways of life to exist" is too difficult for you to understand.

[–] postmateDumbass@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Because it always cones down to an entirely individualized arbitrary standard.

As neat as the meme is, it just abstracts the problem another level.

A level that still looks very similar to mob rule.

The thoughts and ideas that drive progress rarely start from the middle of society.

And in times of rising authoritarianism the tendency of the center mob to excise and exclude overreaches and leads to an era of fascism.

So, rhetorically, what im worried about is how the circle of tolerance always shrinks. Im worried how some use the line of tolerance as a weapon to control thoughts of others.

Is that stupid to you? Any other names you want to call me in the name of tolerance?

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 0 points 1 year ago

Because it always cones down to an entirely individualized arbitrary standard.

No, it doesn't, and pretending so will not make your case any more convincing.

As neat as the meme is, it just abstracts the problem another level.

A level that still looks very similar to mob rule.

Explain how not accepting hatred and bigotry is "mob rule" and not just "keeping peace", thanks.

The thoughts and ideas that drive progress rarely start from the middle of society.

True but irrelevant. What is your point, here?

And in times of rising authoritarianism the tendency of the center mob to excise and exclude overreaches and leads to an era of fascism.

"In times of rising authoritarianism", sure. But waves of democratic protest for popular movements is not rising authoritarianism. It's rising libertarianism, the exact opposite.

So, rhetorically, what im worried about is how the circle of tolerance always shrinks.

Such as when, and how? When do those pushing for tolerance ever "shrink their circle"? You're just making this up.

Im worried how some use the line of tolerance as a weapon to control thoughts of others.

No, you're not. If you really are, then yes, you are stupid.