Edit - I changed the phrase "aggressive support to "unambiguous support", as there was some confusion over the intent behind my previous phrasing.

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[–] alternative_factor@kbin.social 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The post seems transphobic in a "chaser" sort of way to me, not trans though.

[–] LeylaaLovee@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It seems very "chaser" to me. In other comments, the poster mentioned how he was attracted to "post op trans women and pre op trans men". Grouping those two demographics together in this way will never be seen as not chaser.

[–] AdmiralRob@lemmy.zip 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What does chaser mean?

[–] LeylaaLovee@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Someone who fetishizes trans people. You find trans people hot? That's totally fine, you can have preferences. But grouping post op trans women and pre op trans men sexually is saying that they're being viewed as women regardless of their identity.

If you wanna fuck a trans person, it should be because you're attracted to them. Maybe you like boobs and penis together and that's fine. Maybe you like a masculine chest and a vagina. You can be attracted to a certain intersection, even if that intersection is a straight one. But fucking them because they're trans and exotic is chasing. If you like women, fuck trans women. If you like men, fuck trans men. But don't just randomly flip them around like there's no difference to you.

[–] AdmiralRob@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 year ago

Thank you. It was my first time hearing the term.

[–] BraBraBra@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

The guy just said that penises put him off, good god. Is it common in the trans community for people to find it transphobic when cis people aren't attracted to them post transition? Because while I fully support the right to be trans and transition, that is pretty nuts to find it transphobic just because someone doesn't find you attractive.

[–] LeylaaLovee@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That's not the issue. You can't say "yeah I like women" and then say that includes pre op trans men. That's fucking gross to say. He literally did the "oh noooo but your boobs!" You guys really go straight to being condescending before you actually try to understand anything, Jesus fucking Christ.

[–] BraBraBra@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

He said the boobs would be an issue in a relationship with a trans man because he would attracted to a source of the person's dysphoria, which would make them incompatible.

Someone literally asked for his opinion on this matter, in a post that invited the opinions of straight people. There is no grossness or transphobia here. Someone asked him if he would date trans men and he explained why they would be incompatible.