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The real trick I’m hoping is openly having escape funds from the start. I’m actually worried my wife’s may be running lower than she leads me to believe. I want her to always have the option to leave if she feels she needs to, and I make sure I have the same
Yeah, I think it's important BOTH men and women have escape routes. I don't see it as a betrayal of trust. I see it as acknowledgement that despite the best of intentions and best ideals, life sometime doesn't work out the way it should, and both parties need to have some sort of lifeline in case something goes to shit.