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What is the worst way to start an apology? (lemm.ee)

submitted 11 months ago by DJSpunTheDisc@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I'll give it a shot, "I thought I apologized already, but whatever…"

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[–] chaorace@lemmy.sdf.org 0 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

An excellent observation! Isn't it funny how the hardest apologies are the ones where you don't feel like you've done anything wrong? Indeed, more often than not, it's easier to choke down a slice of humble pie before trying to come clean. Then again... sometimes the only available option is to cook up a disingenuous apology and lie that sucker out through your teeth -- both costs are valid forms of payment in the world of apologies. Whichever currency you spend, the most important part is not wasting it!