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What words, phrases or signs do you use and how do you get your partner's attention?

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[โ€“] digitalgadget@kbin.social 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I love those videos where people are caught trying to have a private conversation by someone who speaks an unexpected language! Also it's shocking to me how many people loudly speak common dialects of Chinese and don't expect anyone to follow... literally over a billion humans can understand Mandarin, someone is listening.

[โ€“] 1bluepixel@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Haha, I've caught plenty of Chinese speakers having what they presume are private conversations in my presence, and sometimes even about me. People just automatically assume non-Asians can't speak Chinese, even when these non-Asians live in China.

This happens to me sometimes as I lived in enough places that I understand a lot of common stuff in various European languages even though I don't speak them beyond ordering a beer or whatever.