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Children and sex. Recently on local social media, there was a discussion on our topless laws. Of course, there were the predictable comments about women not going topless where children might see.
Well, why not, Karen? It's utterly ridiculous when you consider what breasts are for, and what children are meant to do with them. Yes, it's true the children shouldn't be engaging in sex acts, and the details of adult sexual behavior should be kept from them, since they're not equipped to understand, e.g. BDSM and power play, yet. But if kids see a pair of boobs, if kids see naked people, or even if kids know the basic functions of body parts, they'll be fine. Lots of kids throughout human history lived in small dwellings and heard, or even saw, parents and other members of their community having sex, and they all survived the experience.
Communicable disease? Now there's something that we should be protecting children from...
We try to keep our kids so disconnected from sex and death that it stunts them.
My 11-yo daughter was, unknown to me, sleeping on the couch when I walked out naked. Freaked her out at the time, but to her credit she seemed to later take it in stride. Her and her little brother are intensely worried about being seen naked.
Asked my kids what they would think if I took up squirrel hunting. "NO DAD! You can't kill animals!" So how about the chicken nuggets you're eating?