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[serious] What survival reflexes of your own experience are hard for you to get rid of? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 16 hours ago by Merlu@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Either from abusive parents, toxic relationships, short or long term bullying or any other kind of traumatic past that gave you some survival reflexes that are not longer relevant but are hard for you to get rid of.

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[–] WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

~~Expecting government offices to be heavily armed and require going through TSA levels of security.~~ Turns out other countries aren't police states that treat you like a criminal by default.

lots do but not that openly

edit: strikethrough for wrong quoting

[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

Oh for sure, but in the few cases I've gone into a routine govt office here it's usually just a few guys at the front by reception.

In the US, they X-ray everything and question me about my (fairly mundane) fidget spinner like I'm carrying around a WMD on my keychain. I have to empty my purse and take out anything that a schizophrenic might consider suspicious.

[–] WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 hours ago

oh I did not mean that part, I was quoting it wrong