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How do I politely turn down a teenage girl? (lemm.ee)

submitted 2 days ago by poisonapple@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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(Yes, I’m aware of these bait-y titles.)

Anyway, I’m 23 years old. I live in my house with my wife. We have many teens in the neighborhood, which is good for my sister-in-law but one of them took a particular liking to me.

The girl and I just casually started talking when I would go for walks, for example. She then started acting really weird, like giggly or flushed. She told me she was bi but preferred women. I’m a lesbian.

Eventually, she confessed that she had feelings for me, though she knew I couldn’t return them. She has also told her friend (19F) that we are dating, when I told her this was not the case and I was married.

I am married and do not like this fourteen-year-old girl. How do I be respectful about not returning her feelings even if she knows I’m married?

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[–] Aaron@lemmy.nz 3 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Not doing wonders for the stereotypes 😆

[–] Mr_Dr_Oink@lemmy.world 1 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

What do you mean?

Genuinely, I'm confused and curious.

[–] Aaron@lemmy.nz 3 points 11 hours ago

Oh lol it's a stereotype that lesbian relationships move fast.. and move in fast 😆 https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/U-Haul_lesbian