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[–] k0e3@lemmy.ca 4 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Step 1: Raise concern

Step 2: Security calmly lets the person know that some of the other patrons are feeling uncomfortable because they think the person is male/female.

Step 3: Person will say they're female or identify as one.

Step 4: Security says OK (maybe apologize for the inconvenience).

Step 5: Let other patrons know. Anyone still uncomfortable can wait until the person leaves or use a different toilet.

That's really it. There's no reason for an officer to ask for proof or ask them to get out if all they're doing is using the bathroom.

I think some of the snarky replies you are getting is a result of users assuming you're asking a hypothetical just to ruffle feathers when the answer to your question is this simple.

[–] gradual@lemmings.world -4 points 18 hours ago

Thanks for the rational response.

Step 3: Person will say they’re female or identify as one.

Is identifying as the opposite sex really something that is commonplace now? Usually these discussions center around identifying as a 'woman,' which is why I was specifically referring to sex in my question.

What if patrons who would be upset over having a male in the female restroom don't care what the male identifies as?