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Working full time - how do you do it? (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by EtnaAtsume@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I've just finished my first week at a new job. I like the job, but it's the first time in several years that I've had relatively standard 8 hours a day, 5 days a week as my schedule. The last time I did was in 2019 or so, and then I went and got back into graduate school for the interim.

Now that I'm back to standard hours, the commitment of time and energy seems to be quite a lot, more than I remember from prior ft experience(It could well be that this job is actually mentally demanding, whereas my prior full-time job was pretty brainless) and I'm not sure how I will make room in my life for anything else.

I like the job I'm doing, and I don't feel as if I'm being unreasonably pressured at work (Boss even said to go out of our way not to work overtime, and it's a salaried position so I know they're not trying to skimp on hourly pay), so I guess I'm mainly wanting to ask how the rest of you full-timers do it.

And does it get easier to manage as you start to get used to it and make a routine?

Maybe it feels like quite a basic or rudimentary to ask... But these are things I've forgotten in the interim since last working 40-hour weeks.

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[–] TTH4P@lemm.ee 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This entire thing is so tragic.

[–] folekaule@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yes, it is. But it's the reality of being a working stiff in America today.

[–] TTH4P@lemm.ee 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I have absolutely no doubt that you are doing everything in your power to prep your kid for the reality. I dont mean to disparage you in any way, I'm just sad that we're here. Hard work alone isn't enough anymore.

[–] folekaule@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

No offense taken at all. I just agree it's a sad state of affairs.

I don't mean to be a doomer and I do try to give my kids more than a black and white picture. I'm not a parent who tells them to just suck it up. I support them every step of the way.

But I do try to keep their expectations realistic. I think it's fair to let them know that what they see in glossy college ads isn't typical.

Finding a job you actually like can be hard. Working 40 hours a week can be hard. But eventually you will manage it. It's not glamorous, but it pays the rent.

Usually you have to play the cards you were dealt while you look for better opportunities. Few people can afford to be out of work for a long time. I consider myself very lucky to be able to sit here right now and discuss work/life balance on Lemmy, rather than trolling the Internet for jobs.