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Death is inevitable but we still seem flummoxed by it happening. We have all kinds of End of Life policies and procedures which do everything possible to make life difficult for those left behind.

Our language is around loss and unexpected, and grief and being bereft.

Why do we make Death so hard to process in our community and what can we do to normalise it across society?

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[โ€“] gerryflap@feddit.nl 10 points 5 days ago

That it's something that happens to all of us does not make it any easier to process. You still lose someone you love, sometimes very abruptly and while they could've easily lived years longer without an issue. You will never be able to speak to them, to see them in front of you, to hear their thoughts, to make new memories Witt them. Sometimes it also makes you lose a support network, a pivotal person that made your life better.

It may be normal, but he mental impact will in many cases be huge.