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[–] doingthestuff@lemy.lol 7 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

This is why people moved en masse to suburbs. You go to your car and drive away, rarely even see a neighbor. I've spoken to a neighbor once in the last year and it was because we were both shoveling snow (it was yesterday). We shoveled for an hour in silence but we kept getting closer to the street (she's across the street). At some point we were only about 20 feet from each other and the silence was awkward. At least it was just a 30 second convo.

[–] tleb@lemmy.ca 10 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

Wtf? I live in the suburbs and we talk regularly to the neighbours. Is this some weird US-specific dystopia?

[–] doingthestuff@lemy.lol 1 points 4 hours ago

It's automatic garage door culture. You pull up to your house and hit the garage open button and when you leave it's the same, you just drive away and never see anyone, you close your garage remotely and you're gone. Maybe if you do your own lawn care you'll see neighbors but many people hire lawn care professionals. I don't have a garage to park in. But my wife likes to do the lawn care. So I'm only outside while walking to or from my car. My wife hates the cold so snow shoveling is on me. I'm about to be shoveling more in five minutes :)

[–] Leg@sh.itjust.works 3 points 10 hours ago

Community is hard to come by here. It's bad.

[–] tamal3@lemmy.world 2 points 19 hours ago

I grew up in a suburb and that was the only time I HAVE regularly felt like this. I still wince when I think of the loud Greek lady across the street who shouted my name whenever I tried to leave the house. Egads.