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[–] LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world 18 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Hate. Like I don't understand how someone can hate others for the dumbest shit like race or sexuality or gender. Like, I don't truly hate people easily, and when I do hate them, it's because of their actions and/or words. Hating things/people is so exhausting. Idk how people can carry that shit around all the time.

[–] Katana314@lemmy.world 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I've had this struggle when writing a story, and writing racist villains; because to do so, you DO need to understand the broken logic in their minds, that still allows them to look sane for most of their lives.

They're working off of patterns they've seen at various points, as well as learned wisdom from some people they've depended on and trusted.

In my day, there are people/movements that I hate, and I'd say very rightly so. I imagine the same things that make me feel that's a "righteous/vengeful" hate look the same in their minds.

[–] Jamablaya@lemmy.world 6 points 5 days ago

The trick is not to write racist villains, you need to write villains with targeted cultural hatreds, that way, even people who disagree can see why.