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What issue in society do you think is near impossible to fix? (kbin.melroy.org)

submitted 1 day ago by Nyxicas@kbin.melroy.org to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Alcohol.

Lots and lots of people lean heavily on it and think that alcohol is the spice of their life. When, it contributes to so many problems than it's so-called benefits. We tried, in America anyways, to outright ban alcohol. Problem was that the person who wanted it banned, was too extremist.

Like he didn't think it all through and think just going for the jugular of the problem is what will work. When, it didn't and just made people work around it until eventually the ban was dismantled.

So, since then, we've been putting up with drunk drivers, drunk disputes, drunk abusers and other issues. I still wish we could just slam our hands down at the desk and demand we sit to discuss in how to properly deal with this issue than people proclaiming that it's not a problem.

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[–] iii@mander.xyz 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

A person chases oblivion for a reason. In my experience.

[–] themeatbridge@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

I believe that has been your personal experience, but that's not the case for everyone. Addiction isn't rational, and alcoholism wears a lot of costumes.

[–] ComradeMiao@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Explain pls

[–] MutilationWave@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I'm not OP, but I am a former alcoholic, and the son of a woman who drank herself to death.

In many cases we have severe untreated mental illness, often inherited and/or from childhood trauma. We are generally suicidal. Getting black out drunk (chasing oblivion) is better than living with your thoughts and emotions.

Anecdotally, I'd like to add that most of the many alcoholics I've known have very strong empathy and emotional intelligence. The sad state of the world certainly contributes to some people's alcoholism. I know it did with mine.

For many reasons, alcoholics choose to kill themselves slowly with alcohol rather than a faster way that could cause even more grief and pain to the people around them.