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How would you feel if somebody you knew told you they had NPD? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 6 days ago by SpaceFox@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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If somebody you knew like a family member, partner or friend told you they had NPD would you still talk to them? Would it change how you feel about that person?

As someone with NPD I'm always worried about how having NPD would affect me socially. It's so stigmatised and people are always talking about how dangerous people with cluster B personality disorders are. I'm dating this guy at the minute. I really love him but I'm worried about how he would feel if he found out about my NPD. Would he still want to see me after what you see online about NPD? Should I ever tell him? Should I just keep it secret?

As of now I've told nobody about my diagnosis other than a few people at job interviews. What I'm basically asking here is 'How will NPD affect your social life?'.

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[–] sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I'd be really curious about what is really means and how you manage or cope with it. If I knew you for a while it would be just another thing to file away about your personality. It probably is something you would share with people you are close to, but you may need to educate them on what it means.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 2 points 5 days ago

"I’d be really curious about what is really means and how you manage or cope with it."

It's hard to live with. It's difficult to relate to others, your obsessed with your yourself and being noticed. It's like being you're every very own tiger parent.

It's all about how you see things. I make an effort to amplify for others and to understand that it's ok not to be perfect among other of things.