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[–] NJSpradlin@lemmy.world 34 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Guy seriously broke the ‘half your age + seven’ rule. Off with his head.

[–] EleventhHour@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I tend to stick to within 5ish years of my own age. Any more seems weird.

[–] GetOffMyLan@programming.dev 25 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

It becomes less meaningful as you get older.

The issue with a teen and a 30 yo is the balance of power. Kids that age haven't dated and figured out all the red flags making abuse much more likely and easy to pull off.

Once you're both over 30 it doesn't really make much difference apart from potential grossness which is super subjective.

[–] EleventhHour@lemmy.world 15 points 3 days ago

I’m 45 and still feel the same way I did when I was younger. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[–] Orbituary@lemmy.world 13 points 3 days ago

I'm 48 and my girlfriend of several years is 31. We don't really think about it. But if I were 31 she would have been 14. It's not a pleasant thought in that context.

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago (2 children)

My sister and I had an agreement, I don't date anyone younger than her and she doesn't date anyone older than me. :)

We're 9 years apart.

[–] adespoton@lemmy.ca 11 points 3 days ago

I hope she’s your younger sister….

[–] billiam0202@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Okay, but since you haven't established birth order, that could be either a really good rule or a really bad one.

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago

Yeah, sorry, I'm older. :)

I married someone 5 years younger than me, 4 years older than her.

TBH, I don't know how old her husband is. Pretty sure he's younger than me.

[–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 6 points 2 days ago

It's 1/7th your age plus 2, right?