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I can wear a dress to work and nobody criticizes me. I’d be really sad if I had to wear pants all the time, they’re just not as comfortable. Let’s normalize pretty dresses for dudes!

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[–] TheBananaKing@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Yea, but let's design some to work on male bodies. Dresses are generally built for female body shapes, and rely on curves most guys just don't have in order to complete the shape - so we end up looking like Graveyard Barbie in them.

Guys tend to be a lot more oblong, and the overall design would need a rethink in order to actively work with that shape, instead of unsuccessfully trying to compensate for it.

No, I don't know how to do this.

[–] Snafu@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

Dudes in parts of Africa and the Middle East have already got it figured out. Djellabas look fantastic on most men. I'd love to see more people wearing them.

[–] pragmakist@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My first thought when I read op was that trousers are a relative new development.

The Romans made fun of the Gauls for wearing them.

So if you decide to wear traditional Roman dress, trousers shouldn't be included.

But it's still designed for men.

[–] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Pretty cool how the Romans just took a good idea from a more primitive culture. Guess there wasn't anyone around to scream about cultural appropriation.

[–] pragmakist@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

The Romans calling the Gauls primitive is a bit like the British calling the Americans primitive.

True, but for Gods sake don't look in the mirror.

[–] schrodingers_dinger@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I was a slutty nun for Halloween and looking cute in a skirt is definitely possible, but man does it take a lot of work to find anything that fits decently. Dresses are simply impossible to find of course because, as you said, the shape is not at all made for men.

Also that outfit made me want to go full f1nn5ter and dress up in feminine clothes all the time lol. It's so much fun! I'm so down for people to figure out how to make the shape work for masculine body shapes.

[–] boeman@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I was a slutty nun for Halloween

Just don't make it a habit.

[–] ElectroVagrant@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I don't know if I could keep that vow.

[–] Xariphon@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

More like Robes than Dresses, maybe? Could start with some Indian or Middle Eastern fashions as a starting point...

[–] TheBananaKing@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah, a men's salwar kameez would make a damn good start, but I don't want to limit it...

[–] HappySerf@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

Love my khurta