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Straight men, what's the weirdest thing you've been told you can't do because it's gay? (lemmy.world)

submitted 4 weeks ago by return2ozma@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] elliot_crane@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Same. It’s not even a sexual thing, I just have a shy bladder and physically cannot make myself go if I can feel someone else’s presence nearby, even if it’s not a stranger.

[–] DavidDoesLemmy@aussie.zone 4 points 3 weeks ago

Safety in numbers. I can't pee unless I'm standing next to another bro

[–] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 2 points 3 weeks ago

I feel the same way. I feel weird and it takes the other person to finish, wash hands, and walk out before I get started.