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[–] FundMECFSResearch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 35 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Wtf are funerals that expensive?

[–] grahamja@reddthat.com 24 points 1 week ago (1 children)

In the US, funeral homes try to get as much money out of you as possible because they know you are emotionally vulnerable. There are exposes on funeral homes having predatory services.

[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Is there a Ralph’s around here?

"Goddamn you Walter! You fuckin' asshole! Everything's a fucking travesty with you, man!"

[–] bassomitron@lemmy.world 23 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

They can be, sadly. It depends where you live, where you have someone buried, and what services and coffin and whatnot you get. But yeah, the funeral business in the US is pretty crazy greedy. $60k is definitely on the higher end. According to a quick Google, my state's average funeral cost is around $8k, with the total cost (including mortuary services, etc) around $20k.

[–] JasonDJ@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 week ago

Yeah but it's gotta be cheaper for Mexicans, right? (/s, obviously)

[–] FundMECFSResearch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

The hell. What if your wage is 10k a year. Ie. you’re on disability benefits or social security. Will my family have to bury me in the backyard?

[–] ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Not allowed to do that

But cremation is cheaper

[–] Kaelygon@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Dashi@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Illegal to live poor too.. shitty situation to be in

[–] WanakaTree@lemm.ee 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Have you tried not being poor?

[–] Dashi@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Have I? Yes, yes I have. I live fairly comfortably in a house that I own with a good job to pay the bills. But I volunteer with people that are not in the same situation and it's heartbreaking. People that can't afford to pay for unexpected expenses like a car breaking down. So they lose the job then lose their place of residence.

Vets, people with disabilities or even people that messed up early in life can struggle.

[–] WanakaTree@lemm.ee 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I understand. It was a joke poking fun at those who really think that way. Thank you for helping people.

[–] Dashi@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

I get the joke now, just was not in the headspace earlier to realize it. Cheers friend!

We don’t really have a couple thousand saved up to throw at a cremation either. Urgh. Capitalism sucks.

[–] bassomitron@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That is the average, not the median. The median looks a lot different (cheaper):

[–] TachyonTele@lemm.ee 2 points 1 week ago

Why are people downvoting this? Do they think funerals, cremation, and burals are free somehow? They must think funeral homes are community service provided out of the kindness of the owners hearts.

[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It should be noted that the article says it was attended by the mayor and city's police chief. I'm assuming quite a few more less notable people also came. I would also assume this increases the cost.

[–] john89@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

The fuck? You don't have to pay people to attend a funeral...

Especially not with taxpayer money...

[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 11 points 1 week ago

You need to provide more things the more people come. Also, when the state is at fault for the death, maybe they should pay for it. However, most of this one was paid for by donations after Trump refused (which I assume would have come from his own money or his campaign money had he not, but IDK), which you'd know if you read the article.

[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Of they take paid time off work, that counts as an expense.

[–] john89@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 week ago

They don't have to be.