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Which is worse, getting rejected by your crush or seeing your crush with someone else? (discuss.online)

submitted 2 months ago by lriv724@discuss.online to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] racketlauncher831@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 months ago (2 children)

When knowing a rejection is destined, I would rather disappear and see the crush be with someone else. A hope which has been shot down is a scar for life, whereas an attempt never made painfully warms my heart forever.

[–] acutfjg@feddit.nl 3 points 2 months ago

Just remember, if you try and they don't reciprocate, at least you tried. And if they don't like you, you probably won't like them in the long run either. Just the idea of them

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 0 points 2 months ago

I dunno. Looking back the things I regret are the times I didn’t try.