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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/glazersblazers on 2023-08-15 03:23:14+00:00.

Been with my wife for 8 years now. She is from a Sicilian New Jersey family where they like to tote themselves as a big food family, with an ancient handwritten book of passed-down family recipes and blee-blah-blah… it’s all just meats and pastas and sauces.

Growing up in this family has caused my wife to be a bit misled about her cooking skills. Everything is overcooked, she uses about 3X the amount of garlic needed in every dish, and she insist on making me comment on how great the food is. I’m a kind husband, I go along with it.

Thankfully she started working a new job a couple years ago where she stays a little later so I now cook most weeknights. I love it. But if she comes home early or it’s the weekend, she acts like, “Everyone is in for a special treat cuz mom is cooking some old family recipe!” In reality, the kids don’t care at all and I’m mildly furious.

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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/Swimmerguy211 on 2023-08-15 03:04:48+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/zedhunt on 2023-08-15 01:12:49+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/uwufren on 2023-08-14 20:37:34+00:00.

It's a lesson to learn but I have a feeling he wont learn.

Both of us are looking for jobs and this was the first bite either of us had gotten. It was a steady lifelong job, with yearly raises and hours and a schedule that worked great for our relationship, lifestyle and hobbies and on top of that, something that he has done already and likes to do- they even said he was "more than qualified".

However, he's one of those people that "isnt addicted to smoking" but its also one of those things he cant not do for very long, and does it at least once a day if not one or twice a week when he can. His mood very much depends of if he has access to it or not.

When we got together, i told him i didnt mind weed and smoking (even though i dont do it, and prefer edibles when i do which is rare as is) and wouldnt ask him to stop, but the longer we have been together the worse I have felt about it,(enough that i've considered whether or not i've always kind of minded it) and have been annoyed by his addiction (or so we'll call it) and now I'm really upset his reliance on it has fucked this over for himself and for us. he also HATES his current job, and was excited to get back into something he liked to do and I was excited for him.

I feel conflicted, but also mildly infuriated.

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I dont understand how I'm the asshole in this? Boyfriend smokes too much pot to mask the test and lost a good job opportunity that would have helped out alot since he

1. hates his current job and its making him miserable
2. would have a more consistent career with benefits that he could really use since he's in his 20s and wants a career he can get into and have for the rest of his life.
3. has a better schedule that works better for our household and things we want to do as a couple, and something that allows us to both spend time together (his current job is 10am-7pm; all daylight hours to do anything)

and... [since you all wanna know so bad] i am a recent college graduate and have been searching for jobs in my field and OUTSIDE my field since before i graduated with my degree in June. I am still looking for jobs and applying to 3-4 or more of them a day. Either one of his jobs, the one he cant get and the one he has now, pays THE SAME so no this is not about having more money so i can "sit on my ass and eat edibles all day" like some of you seem to think it is.

This is about his addiction/habit blocking him from a better quality of life. Thus, as selfish as it supposedly seems, making our relationship and household worse as well, which I have to actually be an active part in as well if you didn't know!!!

Its annoying that he relies on smoking SO MUCH, that he cant even not do it in my own mother's house when we visit or he does it outside and just skips over the entire visit, or when we go grocery shopping or just out to bond together for the day. All of these incidents add up, and this makes it NO better.

Wanting to have a better life and relationship with my boyfriend makes me an asshole, just because I cant handle his smoking anymore and this being the icing on the cake as to why I cant.

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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/Skrimppy666 on 2023-08-14 19:12:44+00:00.

How many people have noticed a shift in the gym in the last ~7 or so years.

I think it’s great that gym culture is ‘on the rise’ with younger people… but holy shit..

The outfits, The video taping

Like what the hell, man I work a 8-5 it’s hard to get out there. To be in the back of someone’s live streamed video in my rank ass baggy tshirt while I’m just trying to do my thing is like the rudest shit I’ve ever seen in my life.

The trend where people squat with no shoes on - fine, but fr 1/2 the young people are in the full gym with slides or or legit just socks. What have we become

• just witnessed a younger woman in the gym- legit in a cat suit, wearing SOCKS no shoes in sight, filming herself on a foam roller - peak hours lol

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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/Amoore1312 on 2023-08-15 03:00:54+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/cocothepowder on 2023-08-15 01:29:36+00:00.

The least interesting form of conversation is when you say something and someone mishears you and then goes on a little monologue about what they misheard. It is never as funny as they think it is.

Example:

Me: “So I had to take him to Bakersfield—“

Them: “take him where?”

Me: “Oh, to Bakersfield. It’s a longer drive—”

Them: “Oh wow, I thought you said baseball field.”

Me: “Yeah. And so it’s a half hour further out—“

Them: “I’m sitting here wondering why you’d take him to a baseball field.”

Me: “Right. So we’re driving there—“

Them: “I was like, oh maybe they sell clothes at the baseball field like maybe it’s a community outreach thing—“

SHUT UP! You are hijacking this conversation with a deeply uninteresting tangent about your boring inner life! Stop fucking telling me what you thought you heard and what your entire thought process was in the split second before I corrected myself! There is no way you thought all of those things! And regardless, there are other people in the room who I am addressing! Oh my fucking god!

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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/CleanInk09 on 2023-08-15 00:25:52+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/SessionPowerful on 2023-08-15 00:14:08+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/SoundTight952 on 2023-08-14 22:35:55+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/ChocoGoodness on 2023-08-14 21:53:32+00:00.

I'm a loner, and when I'm at my house I usually get most of the day to myself. I prefer it this way, as it means I'm not exhausted throughout the day and I don't have to interact with a bunch of people all the time.

My cousin, however, is the exact opposite. He always has to talk to people, play with people, etc. He's barely been here a day and so far I've only had 2 hours alone, and that's because my brother was playing with him and my cousin was asleep until late morning. He's made me play with him all day, and even though I've been visibly tired and out of it the entire time, he doesn't seem to notice or care.

I love him a lot, he's a sweet boy. But I can only handle him at family gatherings, not for this long at home. I usually can handle playing with him at family gatherings because it's only for a couple of hours before I can go home and relax, but when I'm being constantly bothered and forced to do things in my own home, it's making me so frustrated. We had picked him up from the family gathering we had yesterday (Sunday), so I already had to play with him for hours before bringing him home. On top of that, I had shitty stomach pain last night and couldn't sleep very well, so I'm even more tired than on a normal day. I just want to relax and have time to myself instead of having everything be dictated by my cousin. He's controlled everything today because if he doesn't get his way he'll cry and complain. I don't think I can survive until Wednesday.

Edit because I posted this without mentioning it: another thing about this is that he hates cats, and all of them have been hiding since he got here. My littlest cat, Luna, is usually my shadow and follows me everywhere, but I've barely seen her today because she doesn't like my cousin. She's my comfort animal, so not seeing her has stressed me out more than I should be.

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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/One-Community-1387 on 2023-08-14 21:39:27+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/keyboarddevil on 2023-08-14 20:38:46+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/jakobswin on 2023-08-14 20:13:28+00:00.

A band that I wanted to see is playing in my city, got excited until I realized it was on a Wednesday. Why do think that is a good day to have a concert

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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/houseofharm on 2023-08-14 20:02:34+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/Least-Scientist on 2023-08-14 19:38:05+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/WanderingNomadWizard on 2023-08-14 18:00:36+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/IncreaseAcceptable31 on 2023-08-14 16:27:08+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/Formaldehyde_Is_Live on 2023-08-14 15:14:40+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/simplycinci on 2023-08-14 17:43:06+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/mildlyinfuriating by /u/Grimblood on 2023-08-14 17:26:44+00:00.