philthi

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[–] philthi@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

I get what you're saying, I'm struggling to understand why any pirate would ever want to fly a red flag.

[–] philthi@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Cone, surely? :)

[–] philthi@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (2 children)

What was the point of the red flags? Or... why would anyone choose to fly a red flag? I'm trying to understand why anyone would broadcast "if we come near you, you're fucked". It seems a bad hunting strategy.

Also, why didn't merchant ships fly red flags to be less bothered by pirates?

[–] philthi@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think you've confused our conversation with the other conversations you are having here. I started talking to you when you responded to the hypothetical question "if there were only X and y candidates as options, which would you vote for", to which you responded with something along the lines of: "neither, you can say 'none of the above', you know?"

I'm refuting that with you, voting neither in that hypothetical situation is not saying "none of the above' it's saying 'either of the above '.

I see you're involved in lots of conversations in this thread, where many people disagree with you on points more directly related to the actual situation in hand, so I can understand if you've mixed me up with some other context you have elsewhere, but I really don't care about your country's election or your candidates or who wins (I care a little, but I am not directly involved or affected), I'm just disagreeing with the evidently false statement you've made above. Hopefully this has cleared up the conversation.

[–] philthi@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I'm not talking about the narrative you've got in your head about what statements you're making with your actions, I'm also not including what you suppose or predict the result of the vote to be, that's not logical or helpful..

I'm talking about simple actions and consequences, let me lay this out more simply:

No vote: no change for either candidates chances of success == no preference

A vote for either: a change for both candidates chances of success (slightly improved and slightly decreased) == a preference

[–] philthi@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

I don't know about all that, I just enjoy logic. I'm replying to you saying "I'd choose not to vote", that is not the same as saying "none of the above", it's the same as saying "any of the above"

[–] philthi@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

You're not saying "none of these", as it will ultimately still be one of them, more accurately you're saying: "I'll take either equally"

[–] philthi@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago

Gollum! Ggghollum!

[–] philthi@lemmy.world 21 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

As a person who grew up in Ireland since I was 5: this is funny to me

[–] philthi@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

Thanks, I was quite out of the loop!

[–] philthi@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (4 children)

What joke did KG make?

[–] philthi@lemmy.world 27 points 1 month ago (14 children)

I get all of these but lust for blizzard, anybody care to explain it to me?

 

Hello dads,

I'll be a dad myself shortly, and it's entirely planned, we discussed the idea and then worked towards making it happen. My wife is over the moon and loving the whole process and I'm struggling to see it as a positive change. All I'm seeing is more bills and tasks.

I want to be excited and enthusiastic during the pregnancy (and of course afterwards) but I'm struggling to see this as a positive change for our next - at least - 5 years.

It's causing some stress between my wife and I, when really I'd much prefer we were bonding now in preparation for the stress our relationship is going to need to endure after the baby arrives.

I guess this is partly just venting, I feel like anyone I know that I might say this to, would think I'm a bad person considering it was entirely planned and now I'm not feeling it after its too late to undo, but if anyone has some ideas on how I can focus more on the positives (I do see them... watching their personality growing, seeing the world from their fresh perspective, a sense of investment in the future, etc. I just struggle to focus on them) of this and less on the incoming bills and sleepless night and relationship stress, so my wife and I can bond, it'd mean a lot to me.

I'm also concerned that I'm seeing the baby as a problem instead of a... Source of joy? and that this might mean I don't really have a natural parental instinct, so I won't love it like I should, but instead see it as a series of chores and costs and problems.

 

Hello everyone,

This is my first post here, and I just want to share a small achievement. I find often that if I drank alcohol yesterday I'm much more likely to drink it again today, and yesterday for the first day in around 2 weeks I had no alcohol, this is making it much easier to have none today.

Anyway, that's all, and it's not a big deal I just wanted to share it.

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