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You don't need to inform them...

Do you know of any resources or guides on how to do that fake hotspot? I think it'd be so fun to do a little network-announcements thing.

that's wonderful!! I know in a lot of cultures women and trans men face a lot of shame for menstruating. I mean, even in the US people are still mocked with stuff like "oh you must be on your period," boyfriends refuse to be seen buying pads, etc...

For the things on your list, here's my approach!

Underwear: I've heard of people turning old underwear into rags for stuff like washing windows or glasses since the fabric tends to be very soft! Or just rags for any kind of cleaning since it doesn't matter if it gets gross. Personally, I've used the cotton jersey out of my old underwear and sewed them into soft cotton pads to apply skincare - maybe a little ick for some people, but I washed everything in boiling hot water so I know it's sanitary at least. I also keep the elastic bands for other sewing projects, but I've heard of people using them to help with cord management or other scenarios where you need to tie something. Lastly, cotton underwear is better for your body anyway and biodegrades much faster than polyester, so I try to only buy cotton if I can.

Toilet paper: I try to buy bamboo toilet paper if I can. I am not brave enough to try those reusable wipes that hikers use, but they do exist... otherwise, I just try to buy as responsibly as I can and move on.

Tissues: I avoid tissues entirely! I have a selection of soft, old handkerchiefs that I got for dirt cheap at a church thrift store! I'm not kidding, they were all 50 cents. Before we had disposable tissues, we had handkerchiefs, and they're not as gross as you might think - you can blow your nose and then fold them up so the snot is tucked away on the inside (though I'll be honest, sometimes when I'm sick or crying, I do just throw the handkerchief directly into the laundry after using). You can also boil them to sanitize them. On the rare occasion that I've bought a box of tissues, I did hang onto the boxes to use for organizing drawers etc.

Menstrual pads: I made a post recently about DIY reusable pads (plenty sanitary, don't worry!), but there's also options like Diva Cups and period panties. That said, for a disposable pad (or tampon)... I think the best thing we can do is toss 'em and move on. I know there's brands who claim to be better for the environment but I don't know anything about that.

TL;DR: reuse it somehow or use an alternative that doesn't need to be thrown away

Y'know, I've heard about people who do this and I really am fascinated. Do you strip naked every time? Are you standing outside the shower and doing a sort of twerk position to point your butt into the stream or do you properly get into the shower to do this?

that's what I was thinking! I wouldn't really care what color my pads are as long as I'm sure that they're clean.

Plus you could make some in black!

Yeah, sadly I have a tilted uterus so menstrual cups are... shall we say, ineffective. Some folks also don't like to have anything inserted there which is valid.

Hey there! My partner recently went through this whole process. They wanted something really sturdy and low-tech - for reference, they use a flip phone in regular life, so you get the idea. Specifically, the requirements were no touch screen, no Bluetooth, just load music files on there and be able to hit play and pause. They also had a fairly low budget.

We ended up choosing the Snowsky Mini. It's light, pocket-sized, physical buttons, you can pop a micro SD in there to get up to 256GB of storage space. It sounds fantastic with a decent pair of earbuds.

I cannot speak to how repairable it is at the moment, and I will say that my partner is very careful with devices so I also can't speak to how durable it is against someone clumsy like me. I'm also not a tech nerd so I can't speak on altering hardware or software. But I can say that my partner loves it and has no complaints.

I would really appreciate a resource like this! I am still in the research phase of my balcony garden journey.

Do you (or anyone else) know if we have a guide somewhere on apartment gardening? I'm really interested in growing some stuff to save money and y'know avoid eating imported fruits and vegetables if possible

thanks for the suggestion of hacker spaces! Apparently there's a group not far from where I live, I'm thinking I'll swing by and check things out.