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[–] emi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 25 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I know they likely realize something is up....

But until I am ready, we will just keep this current thing going. ;p lol

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My Original Post: https://void.lgbt/notice/Adc4FVQeVxoNOX1FjM

@emi@void.lgbt

 

Looking for fiction with good trans representation that my family might read. Need books that:

  1. Normalize trans experiences for cis individuals,
  2. Match specific genres/themes for each family member, and
  3. Don't scream "trans" from the cover.

Dad's into Tom Clancy, so a military submarine thriller with trans representation would be ideal—super specific, right? Wonder how that would play out!

[–] emi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I am sorry, I have to be that kind of person:

Enchanting Table

 
[–] emi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Blahaj not happy

[–] emi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The only moral revolution is one by and for the people, with the working class playing a vital role in driving societal change.

Moreover, one need not look far to find instances of so-called capitalist "Revolutions" supported by the United States, which often resulted in the rise of authoritarian dictatorships. For example, Fulgencio Batista's regime in Cuba in 1933 and the tyrannical rule of President Rhee Syng-man in South Korea are separate cases illustrating this trend. Additionally, history records numerous coups and regime changes in Latin America, alluding to a broader pattern.

It's crucial to acknowledge that capitalist economies, exemplified by countries like the US, have at times allied with and propped up dictatorships, fascist movements, and ultra-nationalist regimes.

When examining the actions and consequences of historical revolutions, it becomes apparent that revolutions aligned with capitalism have, both in the past and present, been more numerous and have encountered moral complexities and violence. One might argue that this predominance is partly driven by the capitalist motives associated with imperialism, which facilitated the diffusion of their economic model.

[–] emi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago

transition phase being authoritarian is a mistake

Your understanding of communism is fundamentally flawed... Democracy is indispensable to socialism.

[–] emi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Or perhaps you are arguing that power will always be abused by individuals and thus we shouldn’t resist it and those that currently hold it in the form of capital…

in which case…

I never expect perfection in a human society, but I know for damn certain we can do better than what we do now and the improvements we can make are towards a more equitable society best expressed by socialist and communist thinkers alike.

[–] emi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago

Ah, I see you think yourself an expert on Marx. When he said this was he not meaning that instead of the people being under the dictatorship of a small privileged class of capitalists (see the plutocracy of many capitalist nations) he wanted the entirety of the people, in particular the working class to have control over their own lives, labor, and common interests?

Idk, but it sounds like you think you have read more of Marx’s literature and understand Marx better?

[–] emi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 year ago

winget install Mozilla.Firefox

Just saying, you can ignore their existence entirely.

[–] emi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago (9 children)

You don’t know your Marx? socialism-transition-communism

Marx, therefore, further refined the concept of a “transition society” and introduced the idea that the development of communist society would take place in two phases. In the first stage, “socialism” as he called it, the commune state was still necessary both to defeat all attempts at counter-revolution and to reconstruct the international economic system on an egalitarian and planned basis.

 
[–] emi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago

Didn't even know this was a thing... not surprising, although I wonder how it works.

[–] emi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It’s not that, it is when someone (correctively misgenders) as in they got the right gender and then when they catch a hint you might be trans or see something that points to your AGAB they switch it up and miss gender you. That is what the OP is about and I think this is what the comment was also referring to aswell.

The OP is based on the common occurrence of this for MTF individuals, especially those that have grown out our hair… while someone may gender us correctly from behind, they sometimes (correctively misgender) when you turn around. This can be done with the best intentions in mind, like they thought they misgendered a guy as a girl, so they apologize despite the fact that the apology is in fact an insult at that point.

I remember the first time someone called me miss in public I felt amazing, the second time it happened it crashed when they apologized and said sir. Instead of getting off work that day giddy because I was called miss, I spent the rest of the night disgusted trying to deduce what features made them question their first thought.

[–] emi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I am personally not in a postilion to correct people right now as I am still using my dead name with some people... in the future though I would LOVE to just say "no need to apologize, you got it right the first time." Keeping in mind that for those that are working retail, it is probably best to politely correct whenever possible.

Now just out right aggressive shit like when I heard some guy behind my back say something along the lines of...

(was going to leave a very upsetting example here but decided to spare you the example, but let's just say that while I am boymode-ing often it is obvious to many that I am either trans or queer based on my appearance)

...as I was still working I just turned around and while my voice and words were nothing but polite... I am sure my expression did the trick because the dude shut up fast.

(I hate my body (my height being one thing I wish I could change), but in situations like that, an upset expression from a 6'2" person is somewhat more affective)

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Zuck Likes (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 
 
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Feminizing Makeup Tutorials? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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Disclaimer
"Passing" especially for others is not the goal, although none of us can deny that is does feel good when a stranger even for a second correctly genders you.
Although, it sucks like hell if they "correct" themselves right afterward.

Looking for tutorial recommendations, because I have watched a few that were not that informative and kinda condescending.

I have been kinda winging it with the makeup knowledge my Ex taught me, but kinda think I could do better.

 
 
 
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