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Yeah, though I am more flexible than most people when it comes to that. Many people are either tops or bottoms mostly, I'm happy with both.

I never feel bad for correcting them when they self-incorrect themselves. I tend to be more on the aggressive side when someone gets it right the first time but then goes "sorry sir". One time I went off on a waitress for doing it, and she looked so scared and deeply regretted it, she looked like she was going to cry. After the meal when she brought the check she apologized profusely for misgendering me. So I think being a bitch about being misgendered is sometimes a good thing. When I've been nice people are pleasant but end up forgetting. But when I'm a bitch, they remember.

It's like spritzing a cat's face with water to get them to stop doing that thing they shouldn't be doing. Unpleasant but necessary.

Ok that's fair enough, I guess we'll just have to agree to disagree and end it at that.

For the record I apologize if I came off as too harsh to their claims. I should've been more understanding. I'm very used to people making false claims, especially ones of a severe nature, and when I saw they were making a claim and presenting evidence that wasn't supporting those claims I thought it was one of those. I apologize if there was a misunderstanding.

I don't think so. It's pretty toxic to accuse a person of bigotry when they aren't posting things that are bigoted, and actually have and enforce rules in their community against bigotry. All simply because of a content genre they dislike.

I don't like the format and I agree that there's reasons to be skeptical but I don't think it's okay to outright accuse a person of being bigoted when they have not been bigoted. If they had shown evidence of the person being bigoted, rather than their evidence being a guilt by association, that would be different but I haven't seen such evidence and it seems like their community is largely hostile to bigotry.

I don't mind. I like all kinds of women, cis, trans, tops, bottoms. I just like women.

Sounds to me more like you personally dislike a thing and are trying to push it off as being bigoted because you don't like it. Listen I don't like the Greentext communities either, I think their jokes are more on the stupid side, but what they aren't is bigoted, at least I haven't been able to find any examples looking through those communities.

If you don't like them that is okay, but you shouldn't spread lies about people or places just because you personally don't like them.

So you're upset they allow a Greentext community? That doesn't seem like a good reason considering lemmy.ml has one and posts in that one are of similar standards and qualities.

I did read through those posts and they themselves seem benign. Especially compared to other communities like conservative which contain legitimately hateful shit.

Late reply, I'm looking and I don't see it. It seems their admins are doing a lot to squash a lot of that bullshit. Compare that to lemm.ee where they allow !conservative@lemm.ee to run unimpeded and only ban users and posts after I call them out here. Seems my home server is much worse than that one...

As a transfem tomboy I fully support this. I've already had my fair share of people arguing that I'm not really a trans girl because I like masculine things, because I still have a mustache, because I don't try to have a super fem voice. People assuming someone is or isn't a particular gender based on how they present is shitty and will always be shitty. Fuck people who do that. I'm glad these people aren't welcome in our communities.

I didn't even know much I wanted before, or how happy it made me to be called by she/her pronouns for the first time. I'm so glad I found out though, and I'm excited for the future.

I can open it for ya, I'm transfem but I'm quite strong.

Question, I'm very buff right now and I don't plan to stop working out so I can keep as much muscle as possible, does anyone know how that'll effect the growth when I do get on E?