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[โ€“] dipshit@lemm.ee 2 points 2 weeks ago

I'm not entirely sure, I've heard that defederation breaks subscriptions and stops new content from flowing in, but I've also heard that it only stops content from flowing in from the server they're blocking. It's hard to say. I would definitely recommend creating an account there though if you're intio those communities or queer content in general. I'm still thinking of doing it myself soon, just haven't gotten around to it yet.

[โ€“] dipshit@lemm.ee 3 points 3 weeks ago

I wish we had more trains here. Been watching Not Just Bikes and it seems so nice to not need to drive places. Owning a car is so expensive.

[โ€“] dipshit@lemm.ee 9 points 3 weeks ago

Agreed, I wish they'd stop with this whole discourse. Just let me fucking take estrogen. I've been waiting months and talking to a therapist, if I don't get it by march I'd doing DIY. I encourage others to join me, no more shit, no more games. Just Do It.

[โ€“] dipshit@lemm.ee 6 points 3 weeks ago

That's not enough they have to be okay with or even in support of transgender rights. Not caring means they'll either do nothing or work against us. I will not stand for either.

[โ€“] dipshit@lemm.ee 6 points 3 weeks ago

Modern conservatism is a cancer that deserves and needs to be squashed out. It has an outright dangerous and seductive quality to it. It took me years to get over it many people don't ever get out of it.

So echo chamber argument isn't a good one. If anything modern conservatism is itself an echo chamber, that squashes all opposing viewpoints.

[โ€“] dipshit@lemm.ee 8 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I agree, and I personally would not hold it against the lemmy.blahaj.zone admins if they chose to defederate lemm.ee on that basis. Admins need to stand up and be willing to "interfere" with communities to uphold order and standards or the instance becomes a toxic cesspit very quickly.

[โ€“] dipshit@lemm.ee 8 points 3 weeks ago

As someone who used to be stuck in that I couldn't agree more. It absolutely is a lack of empathy and cognitive ability, but also it persists because they think it's cool and accepted. I know that's why I followed it as long as I did. So I say block it. It doesn't do anyone any good and the less people see it the less they'll think its cool.

[โ€“] dipshit@lemm.ee 13 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

The admins of lemm.ee are well aware of that community. From what I understand they choose to allow mods to run their communities how they see fit and rarely decide to interfere with them. Doesn't seem great, seems like a system that'll let shit like this happen over and over in the future.

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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by dipshit@lemm.ee to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org
 

I want your opinion of how she looks. Do you think she looks pretty, do you think she looks cool? Both?

 

Yes I included beard and mustache stubble on purpose. I like my little fuzzy bits of beard and mustache and I plan to keep them even as I transition and become more feminine, though I'll likely always present and act more masc since that's what I like.

My only real source of dysphoria at the moment is towards my flat chest and the fact I lack any breasts, it makes me sad and I hope I can get on Estrogen soon so I can begin to change that.

 

cross-posted from: https://lemm.ee/post/49671489

Recently today I realized that I am in fact a trans girl. I made a post about it in !asktransgender@lemmy.blahaj.zone and after that I was reflecting a lot on my past, the mistakes I've made, and I realize I've made a lot of them. I've said horrible things about and to LGBTQ people, and just awful shit in general when I was younger. I was a young and stupid kid and I would say horrible things online, things I heard from other people or read online. Things I now regret and feel horrible about. I know I can never excuse any of them just because I was younger but I do deeply regret those mistakes, and I am deeply sorry I said any of those things. I know that isn't an excuse but I hope people can find it in them to forgive me for my awful mistakes and accept me as a new person.

 

Seriously why? Discuss.online has horrible moderation and open-signups, and Lemm.ee isn't very much better. If lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works were completely nuked to avoid the moderation headache or risks from two large open servers, why aren't lemm.ee and discuss.online banned as well?

 

Seriously why? Discuss.online has horrible moderation and open-signups, and Lemm.ee isn't very much better. If lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works were completely nuked to avoid the moderation headache or risks from two large open servers, why aren't lemm.ee and discuss.online banned as well?

 

Seriously why? Discuss.online has horrible moderation and open-signups, and Lemm.ee isn't very much better. If lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works were completely nuked to avoid the moderation headache or risks from two large open servers, why aren't lemm.ee and discuss.online banned as well?

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