It depends heavily on what kind of commie you are actually.
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If you're an ultra, you're likely too busy shitting on other communists from the comfort of the armchair to look for a relationship
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If you're a ML or Maoist, you probably don't want a relationship to spend more time "reading theory" (watching youtube slop)
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If you're a Trotskyite, you're likely already in a sex offender registry
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If you're a Bordigist, you're playing hard mode when it comes to getting a relationship as you refuse to be a usufructuary traitor to the health of the species (you avoid drinking and smoking and all like the plague)
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If you're a revolutionary Marxist who has read theory, then you'll drive people away with your revolutionary aura
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If you're a Marxist who hasn't read theory, then you're a liberal who shouldn't have any problems finding a relationship
Yet both are enemies of the workers, play into opportunism, the vast majority of their policies are dictated by business donors and maintain the system that most of us can agree is killing the planet and people. Any minor concessions (that have already been repealed by the way, wonder how that works /s) might make things a little bit comfortable, but is essentially nothing in comparison.
Stop rallying behind the puppets of capitalists, look past the liberal abstraction to see things for what they really are even if media says otherwise.