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I feel like things on Lemmy were pretty chill several months ago, and that’s started to change.

People used to talk each other like they would talk to a neighbor. Now I get the sense that people have become quick to be negative, attack, and not be constructive.

Am I crazy in feeling like the vibe has changed?

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[–] Evotech@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago

Depends on the threads you discuss i guess, I find it pretty chill

[–] bhamlin@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago (1 children)
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[–] rab@lemmy.ca 5 points 10 months ago (16 children)

Yeah I've given this place an honest try but people are so quick to downvote, it's not exactly encouraging me to actively post here

Also I notice the same 10 assholes in every thread

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[–] Yoz@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago (2 children)

That's just normal behavior of human beings.

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[–] mortrek@lemmy.ml 5 points 10 months ago

Aggressive yes, and more people deliberately misinterpreting what you say just to feel smug. Also people that don't understand that a Lemmy comment can't have the exhaustive detail and context of a Wikipedia article, and they take any omission of such in a comment as ignorance by the op.

[–] ShellMonkey@lemmy.socdojo.com 5 points 10 months ago

I haven't really noted a shift, but there's always a few folks in a given place, real or virtual, that are absolutely unwilling to take a nuanced view. My way or the highway and all that. Hard to have a historical view though when a major part of the users have all come on board in the last 7-8 months, me included.

[–] exocrinous@lemm.ee 5 points 10 months ago

Before it was toxic positivity. The veneer has broken down now that people aren't trying their best to bring over reddit refugees, and the ugly underneath is visible.

[–] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago

Sounds like fighting words..

[–] nutsack@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

every time I see a full page meme in the middle of a comments thread I want to punch a hole right through its face

[–] replicat@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Yeah tbh image embeds were a mistake IMO.

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[–] Omega_Haxors@lemmy.ml 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

A couple days ago someone was trying to debatebro me I told them to eff off and that I wasn't going to humor their bad-faith ass.

Was expecting to get hate for it but instead woke up to 20 votes on the comment. It's awesome.

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[–] clearleaf@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

Not just the comments. It used to be page 4 or 5 where the hate/rage content would start appearing in the top posts. But it's been creeping up, and now even page 1 looks pretty bad sometimes. I bet even Americans are starting to feel alienated if they're not perpetually angry.

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