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I live in northern Mexico, so my culture is heavily influenced by both American and Mexican culture of course!!! But if I ever visit the United States, specifically the southern states. Would I feel different in those states? Thank you.

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[–] jrbaconcheese@yall.theatl.social 51 points 11 months ago (2 children)

You’d be fine. Keep in mind that within Texas and California there are pockets of very different cultures: Austin TX and Corpus Christi TX are not going to feel very similar despite both being “Texas”

[–] dylanmorgan@slrpnk.net 15 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Austin and Corpus Christi (and most cities of more than 200k people) are going to feel more similar to each other than small towns 30 miles away from any given city.

[–] 1847953620@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

This is also true. More similar doesn't mean very similar, though (saying this for op)

[–] UlfKirsten@feddit.de 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

What makes them so different?

[–] 1847953620@lemmy.world 7 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

What doesn't, everything is different. The people/culture, nature scenery, weather, things to do, typical architecture style, politics, et cetera.

[–] dandroid@dandroid.app 20 points 11 months ago

Both California and Texas are massive - larger than many countries. There is no one culture for either. I don't think we have enough information to give you an answer.

[–] yessikg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Visit California, skip Texas

[–] Ensign_Crab@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

It depends on where you go.

Lubbock is gonna be a lot different from the Rio Grande Valley. Sacramento is gonna be wildly different from San Diego.

I'd imagine prevailing sentiment on a whole host of issues would vary between, say, Reynosa and Tampico.

[–] qooqie@lemmy.world 7 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I visited both as a fellow from the north and there was 0 culture shock. Oh and knowing many Mexicans there’s really no culture shock involved. At least as far as they say

[–] oldGregg@lemm.ee 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Where I grew up in California, I only knew maybe 3 white kids until I graduated until I moved out of state.

I speak Spanish at my local grocery store. I mainly speak Spanish at the hospital I work at. Almost any business will have a Spanish speaker that can help you.

Hell, my next door neighbor only speaks Miskito

And you posted in English, so you're already ahead of the game.

If you want Spanish culture, stay in southern California. The more north you go the whiter people get. But don't miss out on experiencing other cultures!

I just went to Guadalajara, and (while we stayed in the rich areas) it felt extremely similar to San Antonio, Texas.

[–] 01adrianrdgz@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago

ok thank you very much for that!! i love walmart, even here in mexico they have very low prices woa

[–] protist@mander.xyz 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Texas has lots of different regions, and it even varies from town to town, but pretty much anywhere south of a line from San Antonio to El Paso is majority people of Mexican descent and Spanish is very common. In all the big cities in Texas there's a huge Hispanic population, mostly of Mexican descent but also a lot of Central Americans. Even Austin, which people seem to love to deride as a "white" city, is a third Hispanic, and the influence of Mexican culture is everywhere

[–] 01adrianrdgz@lemmy.world -4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

do you think they would accept me?? I think I want to spend the rest of my life in Texas, they have nice nonbinary rights and are good people!!

[–] kjack@lemmy.ca 10 points 11 months ago (1 children)

nice nonbinary rights

...you are taking about the Texas north of Mexico right? Not some other Texas that isn't openly hostile to anyone not cis heterosexual?

[–] 01adrianrdgz@lemmy.world -3 points 11 months ago (2 children)

i mean texas texas, the lone star state. and by the way, my city coahuila, was part of texas, but sadly they broke up, that's why coahuila is very american

[–] Today@lemm.ee 9 points 11 months ago (1 children)

If you're in a city in Texas, you'll easily find people to connect with and will have little/no issues. In rural areas, you're likely to find people who are less accepting of different lifestyles.

[–] 01adrianrdgz@lemmy.world -5 points 11 months ago

there are also small towns here in mexico, and yes, they are accepting

[–] ISometimesAdmin@the.coolest.zone 6 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Texas is politically and socially against LGBT rights. Maybe not as bad as Mexico, but you are likely to get hatecrimed in Texas if you are nonbinary.

[–] protist@mander.xyz 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I'd be a lot more concerned in north or east Texas than south, central, or west Texas, which are all the parts closest to Mexico. Despite what you hear on the news, there are a lot of gender diverse people here and plenty allies

[–] odium@programming.dev 2 points 11 months ago

As a Texan, I feel the divide is more rural vs urban north vs south.

[–] 01adrianrdgz@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

not as bad as mexico?? here lgbt is accepted and all states are pro gay marriage, and also trans rights are nice and there are a lot of nonbinary people in government positions, and they are respected

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 2 points 11 months ago

Maybe a little. I'm from California and have been to Mexico (and not just around the border) and the most striking difference to me other than the language was the layout of streets. I don't know if that's because they're not too different, or because the area in California I am from is already predominantly Mexican and Portuguese.

[–] YoBuckStopsHere@lemmy.world -5 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Probably not in Texas or any southern state. California is it's own thing and it's different.

[–] protist@mander.xyz 18 points 11 months ago (1 children)

You do realize California shares a border with Mexico and has a ton of economic and cultural exchange with Mexico, right? Southern California is way closer to Mexican culture than anything you'll find in the south, aka Louisiana, Alabama, Tennessee

[–] 01adrianrdgz@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago

you're right!! We also have Walmart in Mexico so I will feel fine.