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[–] JokeDeity@lemm.ee 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)

IMO the constant posts about users dropping aren't from people who want Lemmy to succeed. Anecdotally I haven't noticed a major change, still seems as active if not more than when I joined. Reddit has gotten worse and worse in that time period. I have faith.

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[–] dallo@lemmy.kiois.net 18 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Alright I just created my own server with my own lemmy instance and created my first account. Let's stop lurking and push this number!

[–] MadLad@lemmy.moe 9 points 1 year ago

My buddy did that too. Right now it's just our group but he wants to expand a bit once things are more set up.

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[–] rowanthorpe@lemmy.ml 18 points 1 year ago

I never used Reddit other than the rare view via a search-engine when trying to find something. I now lurk Lemmy daily but barely ever post. I read so many enlightening things here. Not leaving.

[–] ElBarto@sh.itjust.works 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I never posted on Reddit, I only commented, because every time I posted anything, someone would come be an asshole about it. Here tho, I've been posting a lot more than I ever did and I don't get abused for it, unless that was my intent.

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[–] ieightpi@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago

I said something in the other thread and I'm gonna say something here because I want to do my part to keep lemmy active.

I'm not leaving.

[–] PatFussy@lemm.ee 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)
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[–] netwren@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago

Honestly yeah this is actually great. Most of the reasons I started to hate Reddit was that it went "mainstream". Censorship, political feuds.

I would hear Reddit mentioned in the news. I don't need that for my "community".

Like a return to Bulletin Boards. Hell yeah. Free and open internet babyy

[–] 96VXb9ktTjFnRi@feddit.nl 13 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

People make it look like it's over for Lemmy, but this is only the beginning. Don't worry, Reddit will fuck things up again. The Fediverse will win in the long run. Maybe Lemmy doesn't have the momentum yet that we want it to have. At the same it's grown so much. I mean, not that long ago there were almost only communists on this thing...

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[–] MissGutsy@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago

First people complain that there are to many people on lemmy.

Then the number of people decreases

Now people complain about that to

Can we please just stop caring about the numbers and instead focus on making a nice place for ourselves?

[–] stolid_agnostic@lemmy.ml 13 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I dunno, do we actually care about people who would leave here and go back to Reddit?

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[–] BellaDonna@mujico.org 13 points 1 year ago

I'm actually, honestly enjoying this more. Yes, pretty much every niche community I joined has died now, and that's unfortunate, but it's quite certainly alive anyway.

Reminds me a bit of earlier Digg, and the culture here varies a lot but I see a wide range of political opinion and cultural frames of reference compared to what Reddit was, which was a near monoculture.

I prefer this not being guided by a single company.

[–] KingThrillgore@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 year ago

As soon as reddit links fall out of Google, I won't even have to think about seeing it anymore. I also have it DNSBlocked because that's the only way I am going to stay off of it. X too.

[–] cristalcommons@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

well said. it's not about quantity, it's about quality. and spez enshittified Reddit because of greed, we shouldn't be greedy ourselves, or Lemmy will get enshittified too. i would like to slowly make it cozy and happy here, we shouldn't be competing against Reddit, because Lemmy is something different.

any nice user is welcome, please don't make them feel guilty for being on Reddit too. we will slowly make a nice transition so people have the option to being their stuff here if they want, which is what we need. no rupturism, please. i think we should be welcoming, not warmongering. this was made for users, not against spez. it's totally different.

spez can go and screw himself, i prefer to appreciate those who do good than to mourn about those who do wrong. don't waste energies on destructivity, spend them on constructivity.

don't compare to Reddit, compare to Lemmy on July, to Lemmy now, to what Lemmy could be if we work together. don't get anxious about growing. focus on 'growing nice' instead of 'growing more'.

we will make it. for sure. and it will be great.

have a nice day.

edit: i realize the 'not against spez' could have been worded better. what i try to say is that i prefer to focus my energies on nice people than bad people. i suffered already a lot bc of bad people and i prefer to spend my life supporting nice folks. sorry for the confusion.

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[–] OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Something I used to do on Reddit was find a new community, and binge the top posts from the last year. I've started being able to do that on Lemmy, which is a huge win in my books

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[–] Draegur@lemm.ee 10 points 1 year ago
[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 1 year ago

Go back with ad block so they loose money on data and power

But don't participate. Don't vote, don't comment. Optionally don't login as well. You get free entertainment and they loose money.

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