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Its been banned on blahaj.zone, startrek.website, and hexbear.

On hexbear, was banned for transphobia and racism, as well as the original account being banned for a chaser username.

On blahaj, was banned for harassment, personal attacks, and ableism.

On startrek.website, was banned for being a transphobic troll.

Beyond all of that, the username is obviously a chaser username and is transphobia itself.

Not saying what you should think, but you should draw your own conclusions rather than be manipulated by snippets of out of context screenshots.

I just lurk all the LGBT places, not really tied to any one spot. Hope they can all stop being so fractured one day and will express actual queer unity like irl spaces.

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[–] Veraticus@lib.lgbt 1 points 11 months ago

They’ve never broken any rules I’ve seen so not really interested in anonymous (and probably Hexbear-driven) gossip. If you’re interested in unity why are you spreading divisiveness?

[–] CommunistLady@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

@Veraticus@lib.lgbt Idk why but your comment does not seem to be federating right on this end. If open transphobia in a username doesnt break your rules, youre really not an lgbt positive space

[–] Veraticus@lib.lgbt 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

It seems like they want to see pics of fat enbies, which is not transphobic, nor is a username suggesting their desire to do so.

[–] PM_ME_FAT_ENBIES@lib.lgbt 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, I mean, I don't even want pictures of fat enbies so much as it's a joke about me being gay. If I saw some that would be pretty nice, but it's mostly just me proclaiming proudly that I'm gay and that I'd like to normalise attraction towards people like me, who are often portrayed by society as unlovable and unattractive.

[–] Veraticus@lib.lgbt 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

It's a fine username, they're simply using the most uncharitable reading possible of it (that you exclusively like fat enbies and such a stance is equivalent to being a fat enby chaser which is equivalent to transphobia) to perform character assassination. As most of Hexbear's content, it's breathless, derogatory, inflammatory, and unrelated to most people's reality.

[–] PM_ME_FAT_ENBIES@lib.lgbt 2 points 11 months ago

Sexually I only like fat enbies, because being fat is part of my gender. I've been in a sexual relationship with enbies who weren't physically fat, but for whom fat was also part of their gender. I would not be sexually attracted to someone who was fat but didn't want to be. Romantically I like lots of kinds of enbies because my romantic gayness is a little less strict.

[–] PM_ME_FAT_ENBIES@lib.lgbt 0 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

On Hexbear I was banned for saying gender neutral pronouns exist and whiteness is a social construct. Because Hexbear is transphobic and racist.

On Blahaj I was banned for arguing against reactionary apoliticism. Blahaj admins think it's ableist to expect a disabled person not to be a reactionary. I disagree, I think nobody should be a reactionary.

startrek.website thinks I am a troll because they're a transphobic site that thinks I'm faking my gender.

I am not a chaser, I am gay. What the fuck is with this homophobia? My username is a joke about the fact I'm gay. But you fatphobes think attraction to a fat enby could only ever be the result of fetishisation.

You are saying what people should think. That's exactly what you're doing. I would have been willing to believe you were a well intentioned casual homophobe, if you didn't just lie to try and manipulate people.

Queer spaces will be unified when they stop excluding other queer people.

Anyway, reported for harassment.