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Mildly Infuriating

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[–] jeena@jemmy.jeena.net 157 points 1 year ago (5 children)

If people would use the lemmy cross posting functionality it would only show up once.

[–] Blaze@sopuli.xyz 81 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Indeed, unfortunately most of the mobile apps don't implement that feature

[–] Coelacanth@feddit.nu 39 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think ljdawson is working on it for Sync. I assume that's why he held off on implementing posting.

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[–] 4am@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I didn’t even realize this was a thing already. The apps need to add this ASAP, seems like a pretty vital part of making the experience smooth.

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[–] Reborn2966@feddit.it 21 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

if people do cross posts, will i see the post only once?

will lemmy detect that i can see the original + 3 crossposts and show me only the original?

this is more like a feature request, i don't think we are there yet.

we could also aggregate and sync comments across cross postings, so that the post is really just one, but posted in more than one community.

[–] jeena@jemmy.jeena.net 33 points 1 year ago

Yes, this is how it works in lemmy-ui. In this following example someone posted to !technology@beehaw.org and I pressed the cross-post button and cross-posted it to !firefox@lemmy.ml:

And if you cross post it to more then one there will be just a list of them.

[–] Blaze@sopuli.xyz 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

if people do cross posts, will i see the post only once?

will lemmy detect that i can see the original + 3 crossposts and show me only the original?

On the website, it does

[–] Amilo159@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Problem is on mobile apps. If it works on website, that's good but doesn't solve the problem of majority of users that are on mobile.

[–] jeena@jemmy.jeena.net 9 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I'm using the website on mobile and it does do it there too:

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[–] three20three@lemmy.world 107 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Sort by Top 6 Hours vs Hot or Active

[–] Deiv@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago

This was a game changer for me when I saw someone suggest it

[–] GentlemanLoser@ttrpg.network 20 points 1 year ago
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[–] nieceandtows@programming.dev 66 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Eh. Eventually one of them would win out. I posted the same link in movies@lemmy.world and moviesandtv@lemmy.film. The first one hasn’t had any comments where as the second one has more than a dozen comments. I know where I’ll post the next time.

[–] hatter@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

A lot of people seem to have forgotten (or maybe just weren't around at the time) but there were tons of duplicate communities on reddit during the first years too. Over time their mods either agreed to close one and point everyone to the other or the less active ones faded away naturally.

One problematic scenario I can envision with that approach on Lemmy however is the mods of news@lemmysite1 and news@lemmysite2 agreeing to keep the first one alive, but then after a while lemmysite1 closes for whatever reason. So we're left with news@lemmysite2 which is a ghost town. Probably not a big deal for a news community, but for something with a lot of info on a particular topic it's not really ideal.

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[–] Chickenstalker@lemmy.world 47 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Do you wake up on the same snowy day, every day, with Sonny and Cher's "I got you babe" playing on the clock radio?

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[–] Chozo@kbin.social 35 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I suggested an idea to fix this, that I called "thread entanglement". I had suggested it for Kbin specifically, before, but honestly the base Lemmy software could use something like this. I'd love to see some sort of smart merging of duplicate threads like this be possible.

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[–] Psaldorn@lemmy.world 27 points 1 year ago (2 children)

If the title text is the same it should just squash them, show you all the options on further inspection.

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[–] CheezyWeezle@lemmy.world 24 points 1 year ago (9 children)

My biggest gripe right now is how often everything goes down. About 6 times out of 10 when I go to load anything on lemmy it is down, confirmed on https://lemmy-world.statuspage.io/

[–] jao@lemy.lol 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

lemmy.world got too big IMO. So I ended up switching to a different instance. If all the users were to evenly distribute themselves across many instances, and not just have everyone on like 1-3 different instances, I think that the issues with unavailability, lag, and whatnot would happen much less.

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[–] Thisisforfun@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago

It's just like browsing r/all on reddit. We did it, Lemmy!

[–] 7Sea_Sailor@lemmy.dbzer0.com 23 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Keep in mind you can always block communities you're not interested in to prevent them from appearing in any feed. I've already blocked plenty of communities to make the "All" post list digestable.

[–] amio@kbin.social 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

There are so many though. I'm trying to prune politics from my feed but people keep making new goddamn communities - a dozen isn't enough, apparently - and then crossposting everything everywhere anyway.

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[–] Voyajer@lemmy.ml 22 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There are a couple of users I recognize just because of the amount of duplicate/triplicate/quadruplicate posts I see from them, often times grouped up like that too.

[–] chris@lemm.ee 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Which... Why? There's no karma to farm here, just post it once and let the conversation happen there.

No offense to anyone, but I'm down voting duplicates to try to stop this shit.

[–] mojo@lemm.ee 34 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Because there's more then one community of the same topic. They're actually doing a really good thing, they're trying to grow multiple communities. It's not karma farming here, it's supporting communities. That is much preferably then people only submitting to the biggest community and create more centralization.

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[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 16 points 1 year ago

There are some who are trying to feed content to all communities instead of just choosing.

[–] Deebster@lemmy.ml 18 points 1 year ago (6 children)

I'm surprised that no-one's brought out a client that can merge communities. People properly using the cross-posting feature seems to help with this a bit.

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[–] coconutxyz@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago

On one hand yes annoying but on the other I'm grateful for their effort in generating post

[–] pomodoro_longbreak@sh.itjust.works 17 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I appreciate the poster sharing the article to multiple communities/instances, but would be nice if the Lemmy front-end could batch these (maybe with a link like "appears in a@b, b@b, c@a ...") if the user + link + title all hashed out to the same thing.

[–] havokdj@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago (10 children)

My biggest gripe is that 3/4th of what I write on here ends in an angry argument, usually somehow about politics (in an area of politics I don't even GAF about!)

Seriously considering just hopping to another instance.

[–] heavy@sh.itjust.works 20 points 1 year ago

Listen, I see from what you said, what your worldview and values are, and I'm here to remind you that they're wrong.

/s

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[–] dan@upvote.au 16 points 1 year ago (5 children)

TIL there's people that still use Yahoo News.

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[–] Blaze@sopuli.xyz 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I'm all in favor of several communities on the same topic as long as they offer different content

Having the same link or picture shared across several communities is just detrimental to the user experience.

Also, to avoid this, maybe we should have core communities for a specific topic (for instance unions), and then they can fork if there is a need (e.g. what happened with !android@lemmy.world and !android@lemdro.id

OP, as of now, I would just suggest to block communities that are too similar.

I only have one tech community as they seemed to all be the same anyway, I'll reassess in a few weeks if I need to select the other one.

[–] hitmyspot@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The problem with blocking a community is if you block the one that eventually takes off, you miss out. I am just accepting it for now and assume it will sort itself out.

Another option would be to upvote one and downvote the other, to help speed the process up.

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[–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 14 points 1 year ago (3 children)

What is worse is that most of those duplicates come from the same poster who are not even cross posting...

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[–] NotSpez@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I feel like the same thing happened on reddit when you followed multiple similar communities, i.e. unions and iwwunions in this photo.

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[–] ryannathans@lemmy.fmhy.net 12 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Don't sort by new? Top on a short time frame is probably a better choice

[–] douglasg14b@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I sort by active and this is how my feed looks. Except I see the duplicates every 5-6 posts. But I see the same ~10 posts for maybe 100+ with a few non-duplicates sprinkled in. Same with sorting by hot.

And then 24h later, it's the same feed, with the same duplicates.

36h later and still maybe 1/2 are the same duplicates from 2 days prior.

It's pretty bad, finding threads I'm interested in keeps getting harder and harder.

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[–] Polar@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 year ago

This is top 6 hours.

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[–] DasRubberDuck@feddit.de 11 points 1 year ago (11 children)

Seems like we could use federation on the community level

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[–] popemichael@lemmy.sdf.org 9 points 1 year ago

Wef err Voyager has a thing that will block things that you have already looked at.

That might help

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