Yea getting a compliment from a girl really shines up your entire day. I actually get a lot of compliments because of my style (basically a passing gothy tomboy) and every time it happened it just make me want to melt. Actually get hugs out of it sometimes too ;w;
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Very happy for you! โฅ๏ธ
Be you while you can and don't let anyone stop you. It is a waste of energy to worry about things you cannot change including stupidity in other people. Live without regrets. One day, if the winds of fortune turn unfavorable in life, you will most value the times you were bold, the times you were true to yourself, and the times you were true for others. You only have one worst day to deal with. For all the rest you can brag to yourself "I've seen worse."
When some punk kid threatens me on a bike trail these days I tell them "do you think you can hit harder than a Jeep Cherokee and Mitsubishi Montero, because I took on both of those but I'm still here and they were total losses." My real emotional worst low was 3 flat tires in 40F rain at night with a headwind, when a 1:45 ride took over 3 hours. All the other miserables are not really memorable to me specifically because I only allow myself to hold onto the worst in mind. I've actually been hit twice badly by cars but by 7 cars in total. Now I'm physically disabled and kinda stuck lying down at home most of the time. Live your life like you could become me. You won't regret being real to yourself. You will regret the opposite. It is just one bad day at worst.
this is so true, I had always thought of transition as impossible, but now I regret waiting so long - what I would give to have transitioned 5 or 10 years earlier ...
That's wonderful!
Even if you're closeted and unable to transition, have you considered taking DHT blockers like finasteride to stop the hair loss?
Hang in there, I hope your conditions change so you are able to transition soon ๐
Yeah, I'm on fin and minoxidil right now but I'm still losing ground and it's super disheartening. But thank you for the advice and kind words all the same <3
Hooray! What a nice moment.