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The emergence of social media has destroyed all the small communities to standardize communication and information.

It's a bit of a digital version of rural exodus. And since 2017/2018, I've noticed that everything that, in my opinion, represented the internet has disappeared.

I've known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I'm back in the early spirit of the internet.

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[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 day ago

It's not 2017-18 social media, friend. It's just late state capitalism.

And the lion's share of it can be traced to increasing real estate and rent prices.

[–] The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Everyone clustered on like 4 websites for convenience, and then browsing the internet started to feel like wandering around different sections of the same department store: sterile, corporate, advertiser-safe, and everything's transactional. Plus, it made it incredibly easy for any party that wants to astroturf public opinion, because now they only have to set up shop on a few sites: botting comments, infiltrating moderator positions, abusing the algorithms.

We desperately need to break the internet's monoculture, and I think federated social media like this is a great start.

[–] WoodScientist@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The real problem - how do you deal with bots? Sure, we could start a new nerd movement to say, revive web rings and personal websites. But with LLMS and other AIs, how do you keep that whole ecosystem from just being flooded with AI content?

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[–] Kyrgizion@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Not social media per sé, but definitely "the algorithm" that was introduced around ~2014 and has been tweaked by the likes of Cambridge Analytica to now provide us with endless ragebait.

MySpace was social media and had none of the toxicity.

[–] gashead76@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Exactly. The algorithm is literally designed to stop people from thinking about what they actually care about. Of course that has caused deterioration of every aspect of human society to some degree.

Truth. We need to massively regulate social media. If I had my way, I would prohibit any large social media site from offering any kind of content stream algorithmically targeted to a single user.

This wouldn't be a restriction on speech. You could still have your website and publish whatever you wanted. You could still have sites where people can upload user content. But something like YouTube would look far different. YouTube could have one main page of content they show everyone, but they couldn't have individual feeds for individual users. If you wanted to find content not on the main page, you would have to find it yourself. You would have to find channels, subscribe to them, share recommendations with friends, etc. If people want to create their own curated content feed, that's fine. But they have to be the ones that do it.

We don't even need to ban social media. What we need to completely ban is individually-targeted algorithmic content. That's what's lead us to the insanity we are currently experiencing. And this should apply to everyone, not just kids. If anything adults need this more than kids do.

[–] Buelldozer@lemmy.today 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

MySpace was social media and had none of the toxicity.

Usenet was Social Media and it had allllll the toxicity.

[–] WoodScientist@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Randall published this on February 20, 2008.

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[–] altima_neo@lemmy.zip 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Social media back then was making stuff you thought was cool and having friends and other weirdos across the Internet also enjoying the same things as you.

Social media today is juicing the algorithm to generate the most views, regardless of whether you like the content you're producing or not.

[–] gashead76@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

The algorithm(s) and "For You" pages I think have done more damage to my ideal internet than anything else ever has.

I have a feeling that someday in the future we'll also see that the algorithm was also responsible for damage to the human mind and society as well.

[–] ckmnstr@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

Social media back then were also referred to as social NETWORKS. A network implies collaboration and interactivity, media are more linear, having a sender and a recipient.

[–] SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Small forums always did exist and always will exist. That cannot and will not change

[–] everett@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This is true, though internet gatekeepers can keep people from being able to find these forums.

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[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

The old internet was just an intermediate stage between the standardised internet, and before the internet when you had to find a clear channel through the ionosphere. Congratulations, however old you are, you've lived long enough to be bitter that the world has changed.

Now if we're talking about the specific way it's developed with a new generation of robber barons controlling everything, obviously few here will disagree.

[–] endeavor@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 day ago

Forums are dead, replaced by unsearchable fb and discord and searchable reddit. Discord being completely unsuitable and other two being propaganda platforms and most users use them to farm e-fame.

And nobody agrees to drop them for any reason either. A few years back entire fb sized sites were dropped and replaced over the smallest of infractions.

[–] limer@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 day ago

I like very much the comparison you made of a rural exodus; inspiring!

[–] stringere@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago

Algorithm curated content driven by engagement doesn't deserve to be called social media any more. The Feed, seems apropriate, malnourishing as it is.

[–] last_philosopher@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Social media is just a symptom of the larger problem which is the corporations prefering to build walled gardens so they can control users rather than the open protocols that defined the early internet. Back in the day, I used to call it "everything becoming facebook".

Social media is fundamentally a moat - a wall built around a set of consumers to keep them away from competitors. Investors love moats. If you whisper as quietly as you possibly can to yourself "I found a company with a wide moat that no one is talking about yet" JP Morgan himself will literally burst through your wall like the Kool Aid Man. They love it because it avoids competition, and as much as competition is the whole point of capitalism, it's the last thing an actual capitalist wants to deal with.

A big part of what made the early internet super valuable was the opposite of moats: open protocols. For example how GMail can send email to Yahoo or any other email provider. If Google had their way, that's not how email would work at all - you'd need a google account to both send and receive emails. That's why these companies have been trying to kill email for ages, trying to get people to use their own proprietary messaging systems instead, where you can only send to others with an account. Then they could capture you and keep you all to themselves.

Which brings us to the fediverse. The fediverse is an attempt to return to open protocols rather than creating a moat around a group of users. In many ways it's like email - your email provider might cut off a server if it's just sending spam all day, and this is basically defederation. But otherwise nothing stops you from communicating with anyone, and that's how it should be.

[–] gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Most people aren't made for the internet.

Most people can't handle the type of information. Most people fall for rage-bait, hate-inducing, right-wing propaganda.

We need to find a way to make the internet a thing where there's only people on it who actually want to use the internet in a healthy way.

One way to do this is to say no to commercialized parts of the internet. Say no to all commercial platforms selling ads or selling your data. These are full of rage-bait and only attract the worst in humans.

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[–] RealCalliopa@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

It's clear, but I have the impression they were abandoned in favor of social networks...

[–] AlteredEgo@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago

Throughout history, every village had one idiot, two max. And maybe one psycho.

Today thanks to the power of the internet these idiots and those psychos can unite and create big communities and represent a strong unified force in the world.

[–] socsa@piefed.social -1 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

Mostly because it brought boomers into the Internet and they the proceeded to infest the rest of it.

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[–] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 5 points 1 day ago

Yes. I'm a big fan of lemmy. I hope peertube gets going I feel it will be like the original YouTube

[–] Rentlar@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 day ago

You're probably not the only one.

However, the interest (on Lemmy-aligned circles at least) in self-hosting, reducing depedence on large tech companies, community building on smaller scale online and offline, has me excited again that the smaller counterculture can co-exist with the mainstream profit-motivated social media culture.

[–] LandedGentry@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

This has been the majority take since like 2015 or so. It’s very eternal September-adjacent as well, in that everybody thinks their vision of the Internet is the correct one and everyone else is a poser or just wrong and ruining it for them.

[–] RobotZap10000@feddit.nl 5 points 1 day ago

I'm not old enough to have known the old internet, but the photo- and video-based social media never felt attractive to me. The only social media that I used was Reddit, but now I'm here. I appreciate the genuine people speaking their own mind for the sake of speaking around here, instead of the vapid, superficial and clout-chasing ""people"" (read: [fascist] bots) of other websites.

[–] geekwithsoul@lemm.ee 5 points 1 day ago

I think you're confusing social media and late stage capitalism. Social media hasn't done anything to anyone, capitalism has used social media to further its own ends.

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