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[–] Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

This is a joke but it ain't really a joke - if you're trying to figure somebody out you often can tell a lot from the jokes they chose to make and even how they tell the joke.

The most obvious and probably most familiar to most example is somebody who says something demeaning of somebody else present and then, when confronted with the insulting nature of what they just said, claims "it was just a joke".

Maybe (and this part is much more wild theory on my party) people feel they can get away with more in joke form and hence are more likely to share their true beliefs?!

[–] Taalnazi@lemmy.world 2 points 37 minutes ago* (last edited 36 minutes ago)

That "it was just a joke bro" when it's obvious they meant to insult, is often a red flag for being a right winger, I feel. They then proceed to be the actual snowflakes they complain about, by whining.

[–] judgyweevil@feddit.it 19 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Because it's a good joke and they want to remember it, right? Right?

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 9 points 5 hours ago (1 children)
[–] dumbass@quokk.au 4 points 5 hours ago

*Writes in notepad while looking at you with concern*