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Posting this here because the metal community seems to be entirely links to tracks and I'm not sure how well received this would be there. Also, I'm open to anything that goes more on the punk rock side of things. I like a little punk in my metal and a little metal in my punk (which is very subjective anyway).

Basically as the title says. I'm bored of my current selection of heavy music and looking for new stuff. To per-emptively get ahead of these answers: yes, I've heard Kittie, Nightwish and Arch Enemy before (actually haven't listened to Kittie since the nu metal days and maybe I should check them out again).

Two bands that I have found in recent years that I absolutely love are:

In This Moment. They started out as pretty much straight metalcore but have a noticeable evolution with each album, to the point that the most recent album sounds like this. Evolution is something I appreciate in a band.

Butcher Babies. Just straight up chaotic. And good shit. And they're even named after an old school punk song. Chaos and attitude is something I also appreciate in a band. Pity that one of the vocalists left though, having two vocalists was something that really set them apart.

Any other suggestions?

Edit: wasn't expecting so many great suggestions here. I promise I'll make my way through each post and suggestion here but it's going to take time. In the mean time, thanks everyone. At this rate I'm going to have more than enough new (to me) stuff to listen to.

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[–] athairmor@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)
  • L7
  • Lunachicks
  • Veruca Salt
  • Bikini Kill
  • The Muffs
  • Cibbo Mato
  • Blonde Redhead
  • The Evens
  • Shonen Knife

Some of this is more punk or pop-punk.

[–] hactar42@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

To add to this already awesome list

  • The Gits
  • Bad Cop Bad Cop
  • Amyl and the Sniffers
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[–] remon@ani.social 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)
[–] Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Heard of Babymetal but first time I've heard of Band-Maid. Currently listening to a track called 'Thrill' (I think lol) and it rocks. Definitely gonna give these guys a solid try.

[–] GorGor@startrek.website 3 points 1 week ago

Another Jpop/metal band is Necronomidol. Whereas babymetal is jpop with metal, I think they are more metal with jpop.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JYN932VzxV0

[–] thr0w4w4y2@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Birthday Massacre, Within Temptation, Lacuna Coil, Eths, Infected Rain, Amaranthe

[–] sober_monk@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

Amaranthe's awesome. My workout playlist is mostly them.

[–] drunkosaurus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Check out Unleash The Archers

[–] Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago

Fuck yeah this is cool. We actually need more female vocalists doing the old school falsetto style (although not really falsetto in this case, I guess).

[–] 2xsaiko@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 1 week ago

Spiritbox and Conquer Divide!

[–] ghostlychonk@lemm.ee 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)
[–] Skua@kbin.earth 4 points 1 week ago

Battle Beast

Noora Vuorinen's voice should be on the UNESCO world heritage list

[–] fleebleneeble@lemm.ee 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Kittie, Jack Off Jill, One Eyed Doll

[–] cattywampas@lemm.ee 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

If you're willing to go more the punk route, look into the riot grrl genre. Sleater-Kinney is a good starting point.

[–] Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I have dabbled in Riotgrrl. I enjoy Bikini Kill but more in an 'appreciation of history' kind of way than in a 'my new favourite thing' kind of way. Really liking the sound of Sleater-Kinney here though. Just listened to the track 'Jumpers' and I'll definitely be listening to more. Thanks for the suggestion. Might even start a new topic specifically about Riotgrrl one of these days. Also starting to get a bit bored of my current punk selection.

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[–] 404@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 week ago
[–] Brunbrun6766@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Spirit Box, Rolo Tomassi, Cellar Darling.

Poppy, more her new music than old. Some people don't like her style but it's not strictly just hard metal.

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[–] teamevil@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)
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[–] eezeebee@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Holy shit, this is wild. I like. A lot. Definitely introducing this to my rotation of music, thanks!

[–] eezeebee@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago

Glad to hear! They have a pretty big discography now, all worth checking out. Though I think my fave will always be the album Qliphoth.

[–] Skua@kbin.earth 5 points 1 week ago

I love Myrkur's stuff. How heavy it is varies widely from album to album, anywhere from straight traditional Danish folk music to the lighter end of black metal, but I like both ends of that spectrum

There's also Feminazgul, who I'm not super keen on but their name is so good that they deserve a mention anyway

[–] sober_monk@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Brothers of Metal (despite the name). If you're into symphonic stuff, Epica and Beyond the Black are worth looking into. I also love Halestorm, but I think they're somwhere between hard rock and heavy metal.

Female fronted, Halestorm

All female, Kittie

[–] slaneesh_is_right@lemmy.org 4 points 1 week ago

Since i haven't seen it here and it's one of my favourite bands: iwrestledabearonce

[–] tal@lemmy.today 4 points 1 week ago

Posting this here because the metal community seems to be entirely links to tracks and I'm not sure how well received this would be there.

All the users refrained from posting anything but links to tracks because the only users posting were just posting links to tracks and nobody wanted to make the first move.

[–] Cruxifux@feddit.nl 4 points 1 week ago

Calva Louise is also good. The music videos are crazy cool

[–] SineSwiper@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] pyr0ball@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago

Nobody in here gonna mention Scene Queen?

[–] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] SpaceOctopus@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Arkona, Kontrust, Genitorturers. All from quite different subgenres.

[–] HexPat@lemm.ee 3 points 1 week ago

The Warning

[–] MyBrainHurts@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago

More garage rock than metal/punk but the Pack AD is a lot of fun.

[–] christopher@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago

Burning Witches is good

[–] Blue_Morpho@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago
[–] prettybunnys@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago

Jinjer is at least fronted by a woman

[–] thelsim@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Cruxifux@feddit.nl 2 points 1 week ago

Second this band. These chicks rule.

[–] lemming741@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

When I'm not yelling at clouds, I like Tsunami Bomb

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=RCQedL2w81I

[–] ZDL@ttrpg.network 3 points 1 week ago

Burning Witches is a classic metal band (inspired by the likes of Judas Priest) that is 100% women. Infected Rain is fronted by a woman as are Mysterain and Ad Infinitum. (I've got loads more but I read the responses first and sliced away the ones that were already mentioned like Unleash the Archers, etc.)

[–] pootzapie@lemy.lol 3 points 1 week ago

This is not exactly my kind of music but I just wanted to say how cool this whole thread is.. you’re all amazing

[–] soundsyndicate@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago

Nobro is pretty good, they toured a bunch with Billy Talent so if you like that flavour of garage punk they might be up your alley

[–] LegoBrickOnFire@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Blackbriar, Unleash the archers, Ad Infinitum, Spiritbox, Amaranthe

[–] funkforager@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago (2 children)

War on Women is a group I really like from Baltimore. feminist punk metal. https://waronwomen.bandcamp.com/track/white-lies

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[–] sit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Animal Alpha - Bundy is a favorite I return to every now and then. I don’t know the rest of their music

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[–] Sylvartas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago

Not sure about the genre but I recently discovered Blackwater Holylight and I quite like them

https://youtu.be/8EMq6Q_6d0Q

[–] barf@vegantheoryclub.org 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

No one mentioned iwrestledabearonce yet, so a toss out if that. Rad metalcore band from when metalcore was rad. For (much) less metal/more punk or riot grrl vibes check out Amyl and the Sniffers and Be Your Own PET. Don’t come at me if I used genre names wrong with those.

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